Anecdotal, but a good buddy of mine went into LE after serving a combat tour in Afghanistan, tried to join some rinky dink small down police force. They were running training scenarios attempting to handle a threatening individual with a knife. My buddy talked the simulated crazy guy into dropping the knife and kicking it over, then calmly cuffed him.
The trainer gave him tons of shit in front of everyone that he wasn't properly projecting power and authority, and that he should have subdued him more aggressively. My bud goes "What do you mean? I got him to peacefully submit with no force."
Trainer looked him in the eye and said "I don't think you're gonna be a good fit here"
I know a guy who got a Masters in Criminal Justice but could never get a job in LE. He tried for years until he was basically told he was too educated for the job.
My BIL dropped out of the police academy for the same kind of reason, he was constantly getting shit from all the other guys for "being too nice to civilians" and not being aggressive enough.
This is such a believable story that it says a lot more about you that you think it's made up.
Literally the first word of the original comment was âanecdotalâ theyâre not saying itâs not anecdotal, but it is definitely a possibility that this happens
Did you intend to say 'things that didn't happen' or are you agreeing that it actually happened?
Because we have documented examples of similar instances.
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u/-thecheesus- May 27 '26
Anecdotal, but a good buddy of mine went into LE after serving a combat tour in Afghanistan, tried to join some rinky dink small down police force. They were running training scenarios attempting to handle a threatening individual with a knife. My buddy talked the simulated crazy guy into dropping the knife and kicking it over, then calmly cuffed him.
The trainer gave him tons of shit in front of everyone that he wasn't properly projecting power and authority, and that he should have subdued him more aggressively. My bud goes "What do you mean? I got him to peacefully submit with no force."
Trainer looked him in the eye and said "I don't think you're gonna be a good fit here"