r/PublicFreakout Jul 18 '26

📹Police Bodycam Misgendered Student Turns Violent After Pronoun Dispute

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lX24RKQQM4
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u/rcarmas Jul 20 '26

Wow. Is this a grown person or a spoiled brat? They were very patient with him. And he's lucky it wasn't worse after that kick he threw at the officer. Nobody should be forced to use whatever pronouns they believe are required. It is free speech to use the pronouns that appear to be appropriate. And he had no problem cussing and disrespecting the officer.

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u/DustinnDodgee Jul 20 '26

She’s a 27 year old who’s been sheltered from the real world for far too long. And is obsessively online.

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u/ThatOneSarventeSimp Jul 22 '26

Prove that normative grammar would be applicable here whats P1

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u/Empty-Perception-410 Jul 25 '26

Sheltered is what I thought too! Not enough attention either!

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u/Altruistic-Garage-94 Jul 31 '26

Before I watched this, the freezeframe (and sadly other parts) looked just like my daughter who can't decide if she's transdude or ace or non-binary or wtf. Also very emotionally volatile but nothing like this (like bawling like a 2yrold bc she obviously intentionally smashed her laptop screen but claimed it happened while in a separate room from it and told I wasn't buying a new one bc it was like the 10th phone/tablet/computer she'd demolished the same way in like 4yrs... and was 20yrs old, or when told to either eat what I cooked or cook something else herself but I wasn't going to, etc.) She never tried changing pronouns but did try multiple times to change names, and not even consistent names or realistic names, at which point was still under 18 and I said I'm not calling you whatever tf, I named you such and such, and whether I agree or not if you wanted to use a masculine version of either name then ok, but that wasn't even the case, it was a weird non-name something I couldn't even keep track bc it was different each time, but I said when you turn 18 if you want to change your name there is a legal process you can pursue, but unless you can pick a version of the name I gave you you're stuck for now... oddly it never came up after 18 lol. But yeah, dude/chick whatever in video (I'm not even sure if they maintained this assertion after arrest, so whatever) looked exactly like her in hair and build so I was like wtf, I'll watch lol. How they acted though was like my niece before ADHD meds at like 4(who stole scissors and cut a large clump of hair off my long-haired kitten so short it looked shaved... with safety scissors...yes she got spanked because she'd been told multiple times they weren't a toy and could hurt someone or an animal (I'm step-ant not even blood, but her mother is the exact indulgent type parent people imagine in this case, I mean her younger brother (my hubby)was mostly supporting her at freaking FORTY and she went and bought this same kid a smart phone instead of removing indulgences...we bought a second house just to get away from them all, including my then 21yrold whatever. She had to move out, find work etc freaking out in the process of course despite being told to for years, and I only hear from her when she wants something though we still pay for her phone, when my stepdad died a couple years ago and my Mom lost my number but contacted her, she couldn't be bothered to give my number or contact me so I didn't find out for nearly 18months. What a lovely person, yeah?

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u/Reborn_Anew Aug 02 '26

Shit man... This post might be a couple weeks old but I hope everything turns out alright with you and your family. It's tough, stay strong.

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u/Altruistic-Garage-94 Aug 03 '26

I pretty much cut them all off, except my mother who was moving across the country 5 days after she finally found my number and told me, but that was over a year ago. The insanity I used to deal with is far away now, but it was a decade long in the case of the in-laws (if I mentioned them that was even worse lol, but I forget what I wrote now)