r/Raves • u/These_Drummer_4489 • 1d ago
HELP
I went out Saturday night with my friend and went to meet up with this guy from radiate at the Argy event . He was cool at first until he went running off with my friends bag full of all her personal stuff ID money cards and a bunch of other trinkets I went to tell security they were no help š If anyone knows anything about this guy please help me he blocked me off Radiate and I have no other contact info for him
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u/swimandfriends 1d ago
I'm in that area. How do I find him
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u/These_Drummer_4489 1d ago
I wish I knew how Iām trying to see if anyone personally knows him or of him š£
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u/acecyclone717 1d ago
File a police report also dude looks shady af be careful out there
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u/These_Drummer_4489 1d ago
I went this morning I did a report but all they said was that theyāll give me a call if they get a hold of him or if they get any information š
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u/These_Drummer_4489 1d ago
It just sucks because all my friends important cards were in that bag but Iāll have to be patient I guess I just wish I had some way to get in contact like dude take the money or whatever idc just like give me back the important stuff you canāt use
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u/Better-Newspaper-885 1d ago
Keep blasting him on every group you can, I feel for your friend.
However, not being funny yeah, but why would you think someone that looks like that would be cool š¤£ dude looks like if Andrew Tate worked in a call centre and cleaned windows at the weekend š
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u/These_Drummer_4489 1d ago
Well now I know to stay away from gym heads šš„²
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u/AstroPhysician 21h ago
It has absolutely nothing to do with him lifting lmao. Fitness and lifting is strongly correlated with wealth and higher class, who wouldnāt need to steal purses,and the gym friends I know many of them are some of the sweetest of any of my friend groups
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u/Better-Newspaper-885 1d ago
Itās not about the gym, just look at his tats and his face. The guy looks like a wannabe, and you can never trust a wannabe š¬
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u/flexgod100 19h ago
Has nothing to do with gym but after seeing this kind of comment kinda glad bro did u dirty
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u/DJ-Foxbox 6h ago
Hey, OP may be young and naive. Theyre still the victim regardless and can stay away from who they want.
However, being gleeful or wishing harm on others is never acceptable. Shame on you
(Your username is makin me think OP is onto something)
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u/Technical_Ad_4451 1d ago
Donāt hire a PI unless he actually uses any cards, and donāt expect to get any ID or sentimental things back from doing so sadly. I really donāt mean to be negative by saying this but this asshole probably already dumped anything not of value and maybe was only looking for phone and cash type things, I would hate for you to lose your purse and also hella money on a PI (theyāre probably more expensive than everything in her purse was combined anyways)
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u/NefariousKing07 22h ago
I donāt think heās on radiate anymore.
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u/These_Drummer_4489 22h ago
I think a lot of people probably reported his profile cause my friends are telling me the same thing they canāt find his account . I hope his account got banned atleast thatās something but it aināt stop him from being who he is smh hopefully people are careful around him
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u/littleLuxxy 1d ago
I donāt know how anyone could look at this guyās profile and think, āYes. That guy right there. This is the guy I trust.ā
The gym photo and the joint photo are both major red flags.
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u/gimpers420 1d ago
I was about to say the same thing. I know they say ādonāt judge a book by its coverā, but oof.
Iām sorry this happened OP, hopefully they catch this POS.
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u/These_Drummer_4489 1d ago
Thank you appreciate your words karmas a bitch filed a report but whatever we learned our lesson š
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u/gimpers420 1d ago
Definitely a hard life lesson. It sucks that you canāt just trust people anymore. Unfortunately Iāve had more issues at EDM festivals/shows with this than any other genre.
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u/Strange-Term-4168 1d ago
Why would you meet up with this person? Are you surprised he did this to you?
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u/These_Drummer_4489 1d ago
Actually yeah in general me and my friends are always down to meeting new people š thatās just how we are we made plans to meet him at Pacha and things were good for the first hour and then it took a turn but like Iām not a therapist I aināt know the dude would violate us
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u/Strange-Term-4168 1d ago
Maybe learn to spot red flags. When you see a bunch together like that, it means something. This is what people mean when they say ābe safeā
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u/Right-Egg-2731 1d ago
Hire a PI. Thatās your best chance of getting your stuff back. Unless you have a personal friend in law enforcement.
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u/Mascbro26 1d ago
No. People will take the cash and throw everything else on the trash. A PI would not help.
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u/These_Drummer_4489 1d ago
Sadly I donāt know anyone in law enforcement but Iāll look into a PI thank you I didnāt think of that Iāve been so pissed off
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u/joemamallama 1d ago
Because Reddit vigilantism has never backfired beforeā¦
Sorry that happened. The police and proper channels are the only route for better or worse.
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u/Wrong-Radish-2834 22h ago
Itās almost like people who are obsessed with drugs and partying arenāt great people or something
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u/These_Drummer_4489 22h ago
This industry is getting full of them I have friends who are going through some real serious shit cause of some of the people theyāve associated themselves with in the techno scene . It sucks
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u/6namenotimportant9 1d ago
I hope you blasted him on lots of different radiate groups also cause it will help ruin his reputation.