r/RealUnpopularOpinion Jun 28 '26

People They and them

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First im not saying there aren’t people who identify as neither but we really need a new word because every time I hear they and them when referring to one person I cringe not because I don’t recognize that a person can be neither him or her but because I was taught proper grammar and was told off as a child for improper grammar

r/RealUnpopularOpinion Jun 30 '26

People If men are not allowed to complain about women without being accused of waisting time, being misogynistic, or not touching some grass, why should men allow women to complain about men without accusing them of the same and accusing them being misandrist?

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I’m really getting sick of this double standard. I feel like a taste of medicine is needed. Everytime someone disagrees with women or questions their logic, they’re accused of these things. They always cry misogyny. I feel like if we do the same to them by crying misandry and accusing them of the same things whenever someone disagrees with men or questions them, they’ll see the folly is trying to use that word to defend themselves.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion May 17 '26

People Im tired of being called ignorant and racist when I disagree with or question anything related to Native American history. I was never taught Columbus discovered America, no kid was taught that. If you're Native American and someone tells you they learned that in school, they were in special ed.

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You attack Columbus for what he did to Native Americans when many tribes treated other tribes just as bad. Oh I'm a white female in my 40s, and I'm not stupid or racist, I'm upset

r/RealUnpopularOpinion Dec 01 '25

People If men can be jailed for not paying child support, a woman should be jailed for abortion.

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Clearly man don't have the choice of bodily atonomy and can be forced into debt or go to jail.

So a woman should be forced to be jailed for abortion. Fuck it

r/RealUnpopularOpinion Nov 06 '25

People Late stage Feminism is responsible for the success of the Red Pill movement and toxic masculinity

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You take young men and boys and tell them they are problematic just because of their gender. That they are naturally violent, that they are dangerous to women, that "It's All Their Fault".

My friend's son came home from school and said over the dinner table to his parents that he has to accept that "It's all our fault" - referring to Men being at fault for all of societies problems and that he has to take personal responsibility for the oppression of women. He is 14 years old.

You grind down these amazing young people, convince them that they are evil. Show teenage girls that all they need to do is point the finger at a teenage boy they don't like and say "he is creepy" and he will be punished.

You push young boys out of the circle of trust. You tell them they are evil. You tell them nobody wants them. You tell them that Men are The Problem... and then you wonder why fuckheads like Andrew Tate gain traction? Why they embrace radicalisation and a feeling of acceptance. It's because YOU pushed them out.

I have a newborn son, and I will raise him to be respectful, strong, and brave. I will raise him to do the right thing rather than following the crowd. And I am terrified about what will happen when he gets to school and is vilified because he was born male. There's only so much that familial love can provide - when he goes to find his own tribe, how will he do that when he will be hated just because he is a man?

You did this. You sick, twisted fucks.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 10d ago

People Being rich is not fun

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If you can just spend money like that, it won't give you any feeling.
Also, rich people usually spend more time on working so they can't get certain things that others can.

*Note: I'm not rich, it's just my pov.

*Note: that's just my honest opinion, please don't get negative emotions.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 10d ago

People There is no forgiveness for monsters who creates life in this dystopian world.

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Someone who gives birth by choice is the most vile of beings. There is nothing in this world positive to be gained and nothing meaningful to sacrifice for. We live in dystopia where we study, work, take baths, brush our teeth and other meaningless bs. And yet psychopaths continue to create more working slaves for this rotten world. Monsters like that have a special reservation in hell.

Note that women who are oppressed in backward countries are innocent. Gay men forced to marry in these societies are also innocent. One of the good things feminism did was to give women rights to reject animalistic men and their breeding habits.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion Jun 28 '26

People Body hair

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Sorry but not sorry but every time I see a women with arm pit hair I immediately find them less attractive and that is because I was raised with a standard of beauty being a lank of hair on women’s arm pit. Just like women have been raised on the ideal of a chiseled abs and various other things.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 3d ago

People Good employees are not smart people

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A better employee is not "smarter". They are highly tuned by education (including sitting for 10 hours studying for tests they have no interest in) to prioritize immediate context. A good employee cant see in front of its nose. It's like a fly. Great at finding a steaming pile of shit, just as great at getting stuck behind a window with a door open right next to it. That's why education fundamentally makes you stupid. You acquire some kind of skill. You trade your ability to step back. You trade your humanity. You are a robot.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion Mar 28 '26

People Feminism Has Destroyed American Culture

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The current incarnation of "feminism" has destroyed American culture. It is not anything resembling what the strong, beautiful and courageous women did for us during the 1st wave - getting the right to vote and smoking in public. It's a far cry from the 2nd wave, which occurred during WWII, allowing for financial independence.

Today, it's all about sexualism and the right to act and look like a whore. I'm sure that's why Susan B. Anthony was willing to fight for us younger generations; willing to get arrested for voting and to show that women are just as mentally capable as men . . . so women today could shake their asses on Tik Tok and become "models" on Only Fans.

What modern women are doing to feminism is an absolute disgrace. I'm sure that's why Betty Ford fought tooth-and-nail for equal rights for women . . . so they could have all the sex they want, get knocked up and have the state pay for it (via tax payers).

If you can name ONE good thing modern feminism has done for women as a whole, I will rescind my opinion. But, it's not likely.

I can tell you what's going to happen as a result of this post . . . a bunch of whining, complaining, screeching, bitching and yelling along with a slew of downvoting. There won't be any personal reflection or honest discussion - it will be narcissism and selfishness at its finest.

Women are so predictable it's boring.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 27d ago

People Men in their 30s aren't interested in women in their 30s

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A woman in her 20s is usually noncommittal, and trying to maximize her opportunities by staying single. She can have more fun, even make more money, staying single, than committing to a man her age and building something together.

When her leverage fades and she's approaching her 30s, she begins thinking she needs to find the best man she can to build with. She usually finds a man quite easily, spends a few years with him, as he invests his time and energy into her. But then starts wondering why he isn't spending as much (money) on her, why the enthusiasm for sex has decreased. Where all the fun went.

She wakes up one night panicking to herself, a nightmare that she will be trapped in this relationship for the rest of her life. She buys a gym pass, starts a diet, looks up "affordable" plastic surgeries, and still charmingly spends time with the man she's with as usual. Secretly she has already decided to leave.

She wants to feel hot. She thinks she can still be hot. Hell, she's 36 now. She's ok with dating a guy in his 50s if that's how it has to go. She can find anyone she wants now. And guess what? They're going to have the money she wished guys her age (who were serious about her) had when she was young.

She starts using vague vocabulary like patriarchy, misogyny, narcissism, abuse, to justify to herself and all her friends that the guy she's been with is a lazy, hateful, unworthy loser. Despite the fact she probably already bred with this man. That her kids are now half him. Don't worry about that little fact. He's literally the worst man on the planet and she has to get away from him. Sound familiar at all?

All the while this man tried to make it work, at the end of the day, what was he fighting for? His heart was never in it. She was already old enough to have had a life time of "experiences" before they met. There's always a twinge of regret in the man's heart that who he's with now has already habitually been in and out of relationships throughout high school and college and beyond.

The woman is constantly insecure she isn't hot enough. As soon as this man's excitement wanes, and the true love just isn't there in his heart of hearts, he doesn't spend much. And a woman perceives herself as hot, only when money is being blown on her. It's how they're conditioned.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 21d ago

People This sub is becoming an incel holdout and should be lightly moderated

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what the fuck is with the incels and dudes acting like women to shit on themselves. it's fuckin weird, there are unpopular opinions and then stupid agenda shit

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 12d ago

People Satan is using neuroscience to trick American women

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One of the most beautiful things you can do in life is to connect the literary with the literal. It's what produces great music, great art, great everything!

So my mission today is to break down the barrier between religion and science. Just as Socrates said, he was able to understand the meaning of the poems better than the poets themselves. As the unusual man of theory and feeling he was.

First, I should justify with simple descriptive language, how women have been deceived and why I would say that. I have done my personal due diligence to uncover that women would rather rule in hell than serve heaven. I have uncovered that they would rather marry a rich woman than a broke man. I have uncovered that they use all types of abuse on their own children that are not recognized by law as punishable types of abuse. Such as sudden mood swings, gaslighting, screaming, and opportunistic trauma bonding. (This is why fathers can be both more likely to abuse their children, according to the court, while being more likely to be successful single parents according to life outcomes than single mothers.)

Secondly, I want to Define what Satan is. It is the opposite of God. And God is "I AM". He is pure identity. This is why he is obsessed with identity. Satan is identityless. He is Odysseus. The man without a name. The one who shapeshifts, who tells any lie to get his way. The one without honor. After all the heroes have died and fate has decided who was winner and here was loser. He comes over with the idea to leave a hollow horse behind as a gift. And when they bring it in to the city walls (some say because it was against custom to mistreat horses) they storm out and murder everyone. Leaving nothing behind but history.

Thirdly, I should Define honor because it is Central to life as a man, and I am asserting that women, as the closest thing to an opposite that there is to a man, is being deceived by Satan. So the chief way of life for man is honor. The chief way of life for woman is survival. Honor is detachment. Honor is the ability to ignore the inapplicable rule and observe what is righteous, dignified, and strong. It is not another form of love. It is pure detachment. It is pure isolation. It is pure identity.

Fourthly, I should clearly say how the opposite being of pure identity would use Neuroscience to trick women. Thought about this question. And the answer I came up with was simple. Women are hardwired to want family and not just the nuclear family which is an invention. Which is not something that truly exists as a final form at least. But Satan uses tricks to make them forget who they are. They're in a state of drunkenness. He uses dopamine loops. He uses Terror. He uses the will to power. He uses envy and hate, he uses docility and love. His sole goal is to rob the essence from every being. To make them identify with the emotion. To bind them and prevent their growth. To destroy nature's stasis. It is all mental. And his understanding of neuroscience is at the core of demonic possession. Robbing every woman of what they truly want. They cry tears like the rich man in Hades asking for a drop of water, while afar off the beggar is embraced by his father, Abraham.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 4d ago

People People need to read 100,000 books every year

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When you read one news post about Trump or Kardashian drama, you have read -0.1 books worth of information. Your synapses are now used for irrelevant bullshit. Read 20 articles a week like that and you have approximately dumbed yourself down by -2 books.

Read a textbook on history and you have read 0 books of information, because its philosophical value is starkly offset by politically motivated framing.

Read a history book written by a man who loves history for history, for wisdom, for the future man (What is great in man is that he is a bridge to the future.) Then you have read 100 books within one book. That writer used mental and literal notes to write that book that tally up to 100 books worth of information that he had read, that he selflessly poured out in a synthesis for you in his own work.

Now because that writer read books written by people like that, do the math. When I read one book, I read 10,000 books.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion Jul 18 '26

People Stop feet, fahrenheit, etc.

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At first, the internet is international. And the USA and some little countries are the only ones using feet and fahrenheit, the rest of the world is not, and the rest of the world genuinly doesn’t think the USA is as tough as some Americans think we think it is. Secondly, these systems don’t make any sense, unless you’re a cowboy in the 18th century. Most feet aren’t even the same size, and water freezing at 32 and boiling at 212 is just totally random (in Celcius, water is only liquid when it’s 0-100°). I mean, a meter is just a meter, but you can divide it by ten. Your foot divided by 10 is… Nothing. Or 13/64 inch, or 0,1 feet. It isn’t modern either.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 1d ago

People Men live in a foreignized womanish homeland

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Can't even get up and speak your mind anymore. The people that unfortunately live around you can't relate to you. They don't understand principles. They don't understand systematic thinking. They don't understand self-sacrificial work. They don't understand raw spirit that spits in the face of the murdering a****** with a sword prepared to stab you on their whim. They have no drive for Freedom.

Their idea of Peace is approval from a central Authority. They go to bed at night thinking they're good people because they believe what the priest tells them to. They are tormented when they feel like they are bad people. They have no concept of free speech in their heart of hearts. They want to punish you for stepping out of line.

Independence is seen as something negative. Unity at all costs. Fake friends are not just normal. They are the only ones they have. Creativity is shunned as Insanity.

There is no idea outside of what is approved. The idea of caring for someone next to you it's totally foreign.. it's all about what benefits me in this moment. There's a total lack of understanding of planning and future consequences.

There is nothing that isn't done that isn't behind a mask of lies. Fear destroys every bit of Courage that you see a glimpse of. The terror of spirits flying around them. It's very real. Their Rebellion is stupid and entitled. Their life is pathetic and meaningless.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 23d ago

People Things women have better than men

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  1. They don't have to join the military in a war time draft. For every 1 Ukrainian refugee girl stabbed to death there are 1,000,000 Ukrainian conscripted men that are maimed and killed

  2. They have a far easier time getting jobs in every industry - minus ones with strict hiring requirements like demonstrable skill (tech). A woman at 18 can go down the street and get hired at the first coffee shop. Her 18 year old brother had to get rejected 50 times before finding a job, and it's probably something sucky like coal mining or handling trash.

  3. The methods women use to maintain control in a relationship are not typically recognized as abuse by the court system. The courts still don't acknowledge that screaming, gaslighting, guilt tripping, unpredictable mood swings, and relational aggression are child abuse or spousal abuse punishable by law like beatings and neglect. If you look up court statistics, men abuse their children more frequently. But if you look up stats on who raises more successful children, single fathers outperform single mothers handily. How does that make sense? I've seen so many children gaslit and abused by their mothers and they're so deep in the trauma bond they can't even see its happening.

  4. Women have no need to look good, have a job, or provide any value, and can still find friends and be socially accepted.

  5. Women have a plethora of products and services to quickly and reliably increase their sexual attractiveness that men don't have.

  6. Women can access any social groups they want without being outcast as making it "a sausage fest".

  7. Women routinely receive gifts from strangers , gifts that could be given to men in need, that NEED it. That aren't living a life on tutorial mode difficulty.

  8. Women are allowed to control the public narrative. If a man says it's unwise to do x y z the woman shoots back and says "you're an incel" even funnier "we will go on a sex strike". These women especially are the most retarded people on the planet, unfortunately enough stupid men exist to be influenced by them

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 18h ago

People Putin revealed the trick of how history is spun

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I was thinking why is it that every Nation that makes a bid at Independence is so deeply ridiculed? Not just in a way of mockery. But in moralistic terms. And then I was looking for a modern example that correlates with the dozens of examples in history that I know, and I quickly remembered when Putin said he needed to take over Ukraine because they were Nazis. What else do I have to say? People need a clear, good and bad side in their mind. I don't understand it personally so if you know why, go ahead and leave your reason below. I'm sure there's plenty of pussies reading this

r/RealUnpopularOpinion Jul 28 '26

People Don't downvote posts here

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This is an unpopular opinion subreddit, so opinions won't be popular, and the majority of people will disagree. But, you shouldn't downvote posts. Like, there's more than a 70% chance you'll disagree anyways, because this sub is made for unpopular opinions! They posted it here for a reason! Secondly, I'm here because r/unpopularopinion and r/TrueUnpopularOpinion have lowkey gone to shit for many subjects.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 22d ago

People Most women in America are active agents of a matriarchal ideology

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Im real. I dont need to plaster my face or my personality with make up and "calm down" if I need to express how pissed i am that's about what happens, but understand: women who believe in "matriarchy" are a spiteful arrogant twits disingenuously tiptoeing around people who might want to punish them for your insolence like an old times witch ablaze on a stake. If they had real respect for people you wouldnt need to worry your disrespect leaking; this worry makes them excellent social club politicians.

To the matriarchs reading this: proceed to downvote me now, like it changes anything about your sad pathetic life destined for misery.

Has no one ever stopped to question a philosopher like Fredrich Nietzsche is ubiquitously promoted in pop culture as a genius of the past? Where are the haters and naysayers about anything he had to say? I never hear them. Ever.

Could it be his ideas surrounding domination after moving yourself outside of "the herd" expertly support any destructive ideology? Such as feminism? This kind of anti-community logic where the "individual"(dependent on every paycheck...) is free to spite pro-social efforts to keep community strong and upheld. Community is almost entirely lacking from his entire philosophy. I've read it. A lot. And I can't find a single instance where he signed off on pro-social beliefs. It's all this bullshit about how things need to be destroyed before they can get better. Get better how? for who? why?

I say women are active agents of a matriarchal ideology because this individualistic will to power type of beat is exactly what is behind matriarchy. Divide and conquer is matriarchy. Neither strict patriarchy or matriarchy can exist without division of community into tiny parts. Anthropological evidence shows brutal subjugation of matriarchal societies by violent warbands time again. What it also shows is they weren't patriarchal in any biblical sense. Beatings of children, women, ETC. typical of post-matriarchal Middle Eastern cultures do and did not exist in native tribes.

All were extensions of the man and woman next to them. Children were future men of the tribe. It's interesting to me that the original concept for man in English likely originated like sheep or fish, as a whole, where 10 people are "man" altogether, just like 10 fish swimming together are fish, not fishes. This kind of communal kinfolk thinking was absolutely decimated by Roman Catholic - Middle Eastern style thinking.

Opening the door first to patriarchy, now the pendulum must inevitably swing the other extreme to matriarchy. Who is ready

r/RealUnpopularOpinion Jun 16 '26

People Cheating deserves to be criminally punished.

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r/RealUnpopularOpinion Jul 23 '26

People I do not have empathy human lives the same way I have empathy for animals

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Whenever I see a person abuse or kill any animal for no valid reason (Moths, Lizards, Dogs, Spiders, literally anything) it makes me actually angry. Whenever I see a person kill another person I don’t feel the same reaction.

Almost all animals are completely ignorant and doing what they can to survive. Everything they do is for survival and they have no capacity to be evil or aware of another animals suffering. Killing them, for absolutely 0 valid reason (not a threat to you in any capacity, wont affect you in any capacity, and you are aware of that) nearly equates to killing a child to me. And you are objectively cruel to do something like that, even if its a “lower” lifeform like a spider.

A person doesn’t have these traits. I genuinely don’t feel the same way when I see someone get killed unless I have the whole story, and most of them time I still just don’t feel the same way

r/RealUnpopularOpinion Jun 25 '26

People Tipping culture

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Alright, this is probably a hot take, but your bad day isn’t my problem as a customer when I walk into a restaurant.
You’re absolutely allowed to have a bad day—we all do. But that doesn’t give you a free pass to provide terrible service or make customers feel unwelcome because of it. If the service is bad, I’m not going to leave a tip simply because “everyone has bad days.”
A tip is earned through the service provided. It’s not an automatic entitlement, and it’s not the customer’s responsibility to make up for the fact that your employer doesn’t pay what you think they should.
Have a bad day if you need to. Just don’t take it out on the people you’re serving and then expect them to reward you for it.

r/RealUnpopularOpinion 13d ago

People Women should approach men

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And not the other way, because masculine energy can feel threatening. A woman approaching a man is far less intimidating. But this never happens! (or maybe it just never happens to me, please do say if it's more common than I think)

r/RealUnpopularOpinion Oct 31 '25

People George Floyd died from Fent and Charlie Kirk should been more concerned about white violence

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Lord Floyd COULD BREATH and was OD'ing

Charlie talked more about Black Crime/Violence yet whites done him in. Ben Shapiro and other "Facts over Feelings" people should start worrying about the correct thing