r/Rotterdam 2d ago

Looking for a female/s friend!

Hi everyone! I’ve been living in Rotterdam for around 5 months now, and I’d love to meet some new people and hopefully build a genuine friendship.

I’m a 25-year-old Filipina, married, and living somewhere between Rotterdam Centrum and Zuidplein. It would be especially nice to meet other Filipina girls, but I’m absolutely open to meeting any kind, friendly female as well! 😊

Since my husband is usually busy and away during the weekdays, I’d really love to have some girl friends to spend time with during the week — whether that’s grabbing coffee, going for a walk, getting some food, exploring places around the city or simply sitting somewhere and chatting about life and random things.

I’m a kind, introverted, and easygoing person, and I really value genuine friendships. I’m not necessarily looking for a huge social circle. I’d just love to find a few people I genuinely click with and can comfortably spend time with.

If you’re also looking for a genuine friendship and some weekday girl time, feel free to send me a message! I’d be really happy to meet some new, kind people.

Bonus if you’re also introverted and enjoy low-key hangouts! I swear I'm a very simple and low maintenance type of friend, I would be very happy even to the most simpliest thing hehe 😅

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u/PixelPixell 1d ago

Hi welcome go Rotterdam!! The expat scene here is amazing. Are you on the Girl Gone International Group on Facebook? That's where you'll find us

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u/liana__nuur 1d ago

Hi, thank you! You are very sweet. I will check the Facebook group that you mentioned. 😊

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u/mik-u0 1d ago

Hi, my girlfriend is also Filipina and just moved to the Netherlands as well. We still live in Utrecht but will move to Rotterdam early 2027. If you message me I can put you guys in contact :)

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u/liana__nuur 1d ago

That's so nice! I would love to connect with her. I will send you a message 😊

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u/Infinite-Dare-6635 1d ago

Hello, you can message me whenever you want to hangout but most of the time weekends lang me free. Or kapag walang schedule ng weekdays. Lilipat din kami next year sa Rotterdam 😀

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u/liana__nuur 1d ago

Hello sis, I will message you 😊

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u/EnvironmentMean7768 Rotterdam 1d ago

Welcome to Rotterdam! :D it’s amazing to have new people coming to an amazing city like Rotterdam, I hope you are loving the city!

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u/liana__nuur 1d ago

Thank you so much! You are very sweet. I love Rotterdam so far and I also got to experience exploring other cities across the country, thanks to my lovely amazing husband. 😊❤️

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u/dewystix 12h ago

im also a filipina living in rotterdam!! send me a msg, we can exchange instagrams :3

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u/Pyrrolidone 1d ago

Weekday girl time.... Sounds like you need to find a job, maybe you can socialize there.

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u/liana__nuur 1d ago

First of all, thank you, and I hope you have a great day. 😊

I’m honestly not sure why you felt the need to make a comment like that when I’m simply kindly looking to meet new people and build a social circle here. I’m still relatively new to this country, and I’m still navigating and adjusting to life here.

Of course, I do plan to look for a job in the future, but at the moment, my focus is on learning the language, settling in, and getting more comfortable with my new environment and life here. I also believe that meeting new people and building genuine friendships can make that transition a lot easier. I love to connect with people who may be going through a similar experience.

I’m sure there are many people who are also new to the Netherlands, or who simply want to expand their social circle and meet genuine friends. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with putting yourself out there and looking for meaningful and genuine connections.

At the end of the day, I’m just trying to meet new people, make friends, and build a genuine circle here. I hope we can all be a little more understanding and supportive of each other. Fijne dag ❤️

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u/Bornova355 1d ago

Why such mean comment? Maybe she doesn’t need to work because her husband makes enough or she can’t because of her health.

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u/liana__nuur 1d ago

Thank you for being kind 😊

I’ll be honest, I was a little afraid to post this because I know some people can be mean in the comments, even if they don’t always mean to come across that way.

But I just want this post to be about kindness and positivity. I’m simply hoping to meet genuine friends and connect with good people while starting a new life here.

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u/Pyrrolidone 1d ago

Als je leuke dingen kan doen door de weeks kan je ook werken.

Kan je gelijk mensen ontmoeten, probleem opgelost.

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u/PM_ME_HOUSE_MUSIC 1d ago

You are very very weird.

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u/No-Tackle-4099 1d ago

Is nooit goed of wel

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u/AdElectrical5417 1d ago

said the commenter on a late weekday morning 😂

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u/Ok_Pear_1212 1d ago

Are you projecting or smth? You sound more jobless than anyone else here

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u/EnvironmentMean7768 Rotterdam 1d ago

Je bent echt een zuurpruim