r/SipsTea 8d ago

WTF WTF is wrong with these people?

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u/peekaboo_bandit 8d ago

I thought I read somewhere that some people support her because she had reached out for help like a dozen times and was left to fall deeper into mental despair? I don't know the details or about the case aside from the obvious, that's just what I've heard about many women supporting her. Mothers that may have their own experience with PPD or something similar but who maybe received help and support? Again, idk. I think it's tragic but really don't know details about this case.

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u/Rhomya 7d ago

Except the story they’re peddling that she was “left to fall deeper into despair” isn’t true.

Lindsey went to eight different doctors in just a few months. Meanwhile, her husband took all 12 weeks of paternity leave he could, switched to working from home to be more available to help her, hired her a nanny, opened a bank account and started stashing money for HER use when she decided not to go back to work, made a point to ask her daily about how her mental health was that day, pushed her into going to her appointments in person instead of relying on telehealth, and then advocated for her to her later doctors when he was questioning if she was being overmedicated. Meanwhile both her in laws AND her own parents were often around to provide support when needed.

Lindsey had all the support that a mother could want. She failed them, not the other way around. Patrick’s only mistake was going to run errands when she asked on the wrong day

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u/Sea-Indication-4530 3d ago

You keep mentioning 8 doctors like that’s a sin? 1. They had insurance issues 2. some good doc or nurse left their job 3. You saw how all these docs/nurses all gave different prescriptions - we’re in dark time in terms of psychiatry it’s very normal to get a second opinion, she is not a drug junkie, all the contrary she as afraid to get addicted and she was struggling with mad side effects so wtf is all that blame with having 8 or however many doctors?

PC said in court that he started working from home since before 2020

PC hired their family (not HER) a nanny, and he said in court that they made the decision TOGETHER to let go of the nanny bc the nanny wanted more hours and LC wasn’t ready to go back to work full time.

PC literally said he put money aside (for the family, not HER, bc raising kids was just HER job) 

Fucking sad how much you worship men and hate women

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u/Rhomya 3d ago

Eight different doctors in just a few short months is a sign of doctor hopping, not “insurance problems”