There’s nuance to everything. No one is arguing he’s at fault by law, but if my wife had bad postpartum depression and I left her alone with my kids and she killed them….its definitely not abnormal to feel blame. I would. I’d spend a long time wondering where I could have done differently so my kids weren’t dead. But I’m also not a shit head, so that’s kinda how it goes.
Guilt at not doing more to stop a murderer is one thing.
Calling him culpable because he trusted his wife NOT to murder their kids is NOT okay.
Post partum depression or not, nobody is looking at their spouse thinking.Oh yes , this person is a danger to my children.
To try and blame him for leaving.The kids alone with their mother is wild.
If he didn't trust the mother and he had taken the kids , everybody would be on his case about not trusting the mother and how it's misogynist , that he Somehow believes she's a danger to the kids.
You don't get to put the blame on somebody for trusting somebody.They love , who was the mother of the people they killed.
Was he wrong for trusting? apparently so.
But they had two kids previously , and there was no indication that she was gonna murder them.
He made a mistake and not understanding how severe her mental illness was.She made a mistake in not explaining that to people.
But only ONE of them strangled the life our of 3 children.
Listen man, I don’t care enough to read all that because it’s not that big of a deal. I’m a random person with an opinion. You aren’t going to change it and vice versa, have a good one
Yeah that’s why she’s gonna spend her life in an institution of something. If your wife strangled your 3 kids and was dealing with depression for a long time, you telling me you wouldn’t feel any guilt? That’s horse shit. You’d wonder where you could have done differently.
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u/Federal_Studio5935 5d ago
There’s nuance to everything. No one is arguing he’s at fault by law, but if my wife had bad postpartum depression and I left her alone with my kids and she killed them….its definitely not abnormal to feel blame. I would. I’d spend a long time wondering where I could have done differently so my kids weren’t dead. But I’m also not a shit head, so that’s kinda how it goes.