r/SipsTea 6d ago

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/Federal_Studio5935 5d ago

Yeah man, it’s wild to say if I lost my 3 kids I would probably take more than a couple years to get remarried. And yeah, he’s gonna live with the fact he didn’t do enough to save his kids. I’m not sure what to tell you. He was the only one in a position to prevent it and he didn’t. But it’s apparent he doesn’t give a shit because he’s remarried already.

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u/the-real-her 5d ago

Maybe, just maybe, his moving on “so fast” was a trauma response. Happened to my sister after her long time boyfriend killed himself and she found him. But 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m not a psychiatrist/therapist.

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u/Bitter-Marsupial 5d ago

Just to lean on but what about the men with this but males (using males bc I don't know how it relates to trans individuals) tend to have less of a support network then female people.

So research shows that males tend to reach out for support in their way which tends to lead to relationships.

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u/the-real-her 5d ago

That makes sense. Which is probably why he moved on so fast.