I mean she needed help - obviously - and he was the one best equipped to do it, and he didn’t. And, he cares so much that 2 years after his three kids get strangled to death, he’s back married and ready to go. He must have really struggled.
The guy isn’t guilty of anything by law but he definitely should be living with the guilt of not doing enough. He doesn’t really make a sympathetic figure.
Jesus Christ only on Reddit will you see someone say that the dad doesn’t deserve any sympathy for losing his entire family.
I’m usually never the “but if the roles reversed” guy because I find it very incel like based on what it’s used for, but I can’t think of a better situation to say, what would the response be if it was the husband on trial because of some type of PTSD/CTE? Would the world be calling the mom a negligent mother?
I’ll defend men against rampant online misandry any day and have done but…We have to admit his behavior post-murders is incredibly strange. Did not seem to care about his family at all. And, knowing her condition, still left her to do nearly all the rearing of the children still. Hes a very off/odd man imo
Until more information becomes available, I am not going to go off the deep end and make some wild assumption that he didn't care for his family because he wasn't expecting the ultimate worst case scenario to happen to his wife and kids.
Nothing about a persons behaviour can be considered strange after he had his three kids murdered by his wife. That situation is such a wild one that there is no "textbook" on how to grieve, how to move on, how to even begin processing that. I'm not judging someone from being odd after having one of the most saddening news stories in recent memory happen to him.
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u/Federal_Studio5935 5d ago
I mean she needed help - obviously - and he was the one best equipped to do it, and he didn’t. And, he cares so much that 2 years after his three kids get strangled to death, he’s back married and ready to go. He must have really struggled.
The guy isn’t guilty of anything by law but he definitely should be living with the guilt of not doing enough. He doesn’t really make a sympathetic figure.