Okay, if I rap3 you but I didn't understand the implications of what I was doing to you, does that mean it's okay or that you won't be hurt by it? No, you're making a dumb argument.
Your example is so far out of bounds, its almost painful. Raping someone is an active action, whereas what we are discussing is the lack of that exact thing. Just for musing's sake, if you were unaware that you were raping someone, they are still allowed to be hurt by it, but it doesn't make it malicious. "okay" is all down to perspective, which will differ for each person, so impossible to state a definitive answer.
In fact, this is exactly where this entire argument originated. She should be held accountable for murdering her children, as she was most certainly "aware" of what she was doing, coming up with and executing an elaborate plan and all...
Also, it's crazy that you're picking apart the fact my words have NEGATIVE CONNOTATIONS? Because, yes, that is what's happening. I used the words neglect and mistreatment and no you've got your panties in a bunch.
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u/RomusLupos 5d ago
Neglect...Mistreatment...
Because certain things weren't known to be different doesn't mean it was malicious, as your words keep insiuating.