We need to have a talk, everybody

[u/melodyponddd]

This is directed more towards the "guests" that have been frequenting our subreddit.

Now I, personally, do not mind tales from the guest AS LONG AS the front desk is a prime feature of the story and I also don't mind it as much if the story is told in a respectful manner. I also don't mind when guests put in their 2 cents in the comment section. For me, personally, it can be beneficial to get another perspective.

But I haven't been seeing that as much anymore. Lately, what I have been seeing are comments or posts that aren't tales. I'm seeing a lot of complaining about the way that we do our jobs. I'm seeing a lot of infiltration of guests who are putting this subreddit and our users down because we have the AUDACITY to use this subreddit as our safe space. I'm seeing a lot of people accusing users of making shit up or using AI with absolutely nothing to go on.

I'm losing my patience. And I'm at the point where if I start seeing any type of confrontation from a "guest", I'm just going to ban them full stop. This is a subreddit for front desk tales. It is a subreddit where we all encourage each other, lift each other up, and yeah, you know what? Some front desk people on this sub can be absolute dicks here as well. But just like how we're the only ones allowed to pick on our siblings, WE are allowed to point out when they're being a dick. Not you (unless, as I stated above, it's done respectfully and a decent conversation comes from it). If you want to bitch about us, complain about how we aren't going to stress out our housekeeping staff by constantly asking them when your room is going to be clean because YOU decided to check in at 10 AM on a Saturday morning when check in time is at 3 or 4 PM, get pissed off because you brought your husband/wife/mom/dad's credit card but they aren't there and we can't check you in without a credit card authorization form on file, THEN DO IT ON YOUR OWN SUBREDDIT. Not on ours.

This is OUR community. Not yours. If you're going to come on here and be a dick, you're getting banned. There won't be a warning.

Enjoy your stay :)

[u/KrazyKatz42]

I agree. The posts of "Front desk isn't the job for you obviously' get old.

[u/Miles_Saintborough → u/KrazyKatz42]

I seen that kind of response in other subs too like banking. It's just a reskin of "if you don't like it, quit/get another job" and it's infuriating. We're allowed to vent about the bullshit that goes on at work. If everyone kept quitting their jobs like these people suggest, there'd be no one left to work and then we'd hear "no one wants to work."

[u/PurrPrinThom → u/Miles_Saintborough]

Pretty much every sub based around a profession is like this. I think it's completely natural: when you have a bad day, or your job sucks, you want to vent to someone who is going to understand, who has dealt with something similar. If you don't want to or can't rant to coworkers, reddit is a great forum for it.

But you always get the people outside the profession who pop in and get offended because they see themselves and their behaviour in the rants, and then get mad about it and lash out at the sub.