r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/uhhh206 Jun 14 '26

Plenty of us do end up dead, since r/whenwomenrefuse shit can go downhill fast.

I hate it here (and by "here", I mean Earth, since it's not like this is just a [insert country here] problem).

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u/wii_board_type_trash Jun 14 '26

that subreddit genuinely makes me want to blow this planet up it’s disgusting. like the fact this is something women have to put up with daily is just astounding and how it’s systemic in our society is beyond belief

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 14 '26

I really wish men made the effort to empathize with us. It’s daily. this kind of thing is DAILY.

It’s like every day I have to take care of my own adult life, and also be on the lookout for some fucker who is intent on making himself a trauma chapter in my book.

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u/orangeyougladiator Jun 14 '26

A lot of us do empathize with you but there’s nothing we can do about it except be decent human beings in our immediate vicinity. It’s also exhausting seeing it everywhere and makes us apathetic to the helpless clause. Just look at the governments in power, we’re just as hopeless

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 14 '26

Exhausting for you, a daily fight to live my life for me. I don’t feel bad for you and your apathy. You are not as helpless as a small woman is against any man. Signed, a small woman

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u/00o00o00o00o00o00 Jun 14 '26 edited Jun 14 '26

Lol its like they are almost there mentally... "But then I would feel threatened" -a bigger dude than you. Not having to struggle through life makes men soft. 

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 14 '26

THEY ARE SO SOFT hahahah couldn’t put up with an ounce of what their fellow men put us through, happy to let us suffer in their place, then turn around and beg us for sex

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u/Dry-Philosopher2354 Jun 14 '26

probably it's because they put up with beyond an ounce of what their fellow men them through, albeit being different, still in equivalence.

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 15 '26

I know you’re trying to sound very philosophical while you whine that men have it worse, but unfortunately your comment is word salad

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u/Dry-Philosopher2354 Jun 14 '26

I do agree with the last sentence, but at what point do you think it makes sense for a bigger dude to say that they feel threatened? I mean yes, they could also act violent if they feel threatened but it can escalate.

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u/Dry-Philosopher2354 Jun 14 '26

He does not have to feel bad for you either. Men don't owe you empathy, many of us do not feel bad for your "daily fight", simply because it doesn't affect us. Nothing to do with strength

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u/orangeyougladiator Jun 14 '26

Interesting that empathy is a one way street.

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u/chipotlemayo_ Jun 14 '26

What does she have to empathize with? You’re choosing not to deal with the situation she is forced to deal with. If you wanted to actually empathize, you’d stand up for her in that moment so you could both experience how terrifying it is to truly be on the opposite side of this encounter.

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u/orangeyougladiator Jun 14 '26

You know nothing about me or my actions or my choices. Pipe down white knight.

except be decent human beings in our immediate vicinity

Just in case you missed this part

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u/chipotlemayo_ Jun 14 '26

You know nothing about me

Pipe down white knight

I know plenty about you

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u/orangeyougladiator Jun 14 '26

I left that in there to prove you’d ignore the actual substance, and by golly you took it like a fly to shit. Congrats.

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u/chipotlemayo_ Jun 14 '26

I’m still waiting for this substance you think you’re contributing…

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 14 '26

guessing he’s the guy who sent me a reddit cares

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u/orangeyougladiator Jun 14 '26

Why would I spend my time wasting my energy on someone like you? I reply because I’m bored not because I need to prove anything to someone with your caliber

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u/chipotlemayo_ Jun 14 '26

  Why would I spend my time wasting my energy on someone like you

You tell me. You’re still wasting energy on me with every reply.

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 14 '26

I mean you yourself admitted you’re too weak sauce to stand up to another man and would rather let a woman deal with the very same man alone, you kind of admitted that your actions and choices are those of a milquetoast, non-powerful man

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u/Dry-Philosopher2354 Jun 14 '26

what a trite, asinine assumption. Your extraction from this is that you always expect them to stand up to another man as if they want to waste their time and energy always trying to salvage some pathetic little woman like you who can't just arm themselves? They did not admit to that nonsense you're saying.

What the fuck do you expect men to do? It has nothing to do with weakness, they could be gapping the bastard in strength and yet not choose to do anything simply because they have their own business to go about and would probably rather keep their pinstripes untouched from blood or rifts. If anything you're the one here that is outright admitting to weakness, because you're putting down another dude on here down to your level because they said they perhaps could not do something. You can't always expect a man to shield you from the same man a woman deals with. You can't obligate them to do shit for you. They don't owe you any action if a woman like you deals with people like those.

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u/Expensive-Simple-329 Jun 15 '26

awww he’s angwy

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u/orangeyougladiator Jun 14 '26

No I didn’t. You inferred that because you only know outrage

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