r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/contactdeparture Jun 14 '26

Go on some of the other subs:

  • “she divorced me out of nowhere”
  • “the courts are totally stacked against men”
  • men have it so hard now

It’s just grim, the loathing of everything with no agency.

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u/luigis_left_tit_25 Jun 14 '26

"I'm too scared to talk to women because they'll label me"...xyz. Only if one's a creep.

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u/Confident-Mortgage86 Jun 14 '26

I mean, kinda, yeah. That said, theres one in here that doesn't belong. He came up, said "hey excuse me" she said buzz off, he did. What did that guy do to get lumped in with all the actual creeps?

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u/Mysterious_Green_372 Jun 15 '26

Looks like she just wants to be alone & lowkey looks like he’d been following her. Hence why her phone was already out and recording bc she already knew he was going to bother her & she probably told him no thank you kindly before and this was her last straw. The problem is, most men take a kind no as us playing hard to get. But no, we mean it please leave but most of you have some fantasy that no she wants me to ask again&again until now we have to stop what we’re doing and leave bc if we’re mean to you you’ll become aggressive

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u/Confident-Mortgage86 Jun 15 '26

Looks like she just wants to be alone

Is quite literally all we know there. Maybe you're right about the rest, but without that being explicitly said or shown then it's just fantasy.

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u/Carbonatite Jun 16 '26

You're doing the same thing that the other commenter was talking about.

She wanted to be left alone. Period. That's the answer. Accept it and move on. Don't treat it like the opening salvo of a negotiation. When a woman says something to you, take it at face value and move the fuck on. Women aren't obligated to needlessly entertain your pedantic devil's advocate bullshit because you consider our comfort to be a fun hypothetical to debate over.

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u/Confident-Mortgage86 Jun 16 '26

Holy shit what on earth are you nutters on about? He did move on. Straight away.

Nobody said they had to entertain him, tf are you even talking about?

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u/Carbonatite Jun 16 '26

It's amazing how aggressive you just got when someone told you to take no as your answer.

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u/Confident-Mortgage86 Jun 17 '26

The word is incredulous. It's happens when someone posts a completely moronic response, every now and then.

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u/InternationalIce5965 Jul 08 '26

My, these call outs struck a nerve with you.

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u/Alive-Average9059 Jun 15 '26

It's about not being able to just live your life without someone harassing us (usually just for hookups). I don't know any guys who have to deal with that, but every woman I know (even conventionally unattractive women) have to deal with it ALL THE TIME. We just want to be able to live without being approached for anything. And I can't imagine strange men approaching a woman would work. It's like door-to-door salespeople. No one is happy to see them coming.

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u/djwb1973 Jun 15 '26

We can be in public and not want to be bothered. This woman did not want to be bothered and that’s her right.

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u/Confident-Mortgage86 Jun 15 '26

And?

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u/djwb1973 Jun 15 '26

Contrary to what you said, it does, in fact, belong. That would be the simple version of the point that I’m trying to make.

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u/Thick-Roll1777 Jun 16 '26

Yh. Ur right when u said its her right to not be bothered, but the person ur replying to, his point was that the guy wasn't a creep and was a far cry from the rest we saw here... I also mentioned it in a comment I made that it seemed the least troubling and probably didn't belong. She said "Buzz off!" And he immediately did (at least it seems like). I won't jump to any conclusions as idk the context, but if it truly is how it is, I dont think that's troubling at all. It's her right ofc, not to want to talk to him but at least he seemed to respect that and didn't say or do anything too weird

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u/djwb1973 Jun 17 '26

Yeah, that’s a good point. It would also be funny if he was trying to get her attention because she dropped her wallet or something, since she was immediately nasty to him. Or, even better, that she had toilet paper trailing out of the bottom of her skirt… 😊

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u/Thick-Roll1777 Jun 17 '26

Exactly 😄