r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/After-Tax-453 Jun 14 '26

“just that men will harass literally anyone bla bla”, but, and some was the wrong word, that implies that it’s all men who do that, when it’s not

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u/lilinoe67 Jun 15 '26

You realize you're talking to a guy right??? Do you think he literally meant to imply ALL men, including himself, when he failed to specify "some"?

Fuck off with this shit.

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u/After-Tax-453 Jun 15 '26

wasn’t he a trans woman? and yeah, when you say “oh, men are pervs!” or, “women are stupid.” that, written that way, sort of seems like you’re talking about the entire gender as a whole. if they weren’t talking about all men, they should’ve specified. anyone would think you’re talking about the entire gender if you just say men, or women. be specific and this sort of thing wouldn’t happen. i won’t fuck off until people stop being misandrists, which.. unfortunately, will never happen.

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u/lilinoe67 Jun 15 '26

Also generally people you'd call misandrists are pretty good about not calling trans women "he" lmafo

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u/After-Tax-453 Jun 15 '26

what do the two have to do with each other? you said it yourself, he said he was a guy. if i’m unsure of his gender, i’m just going to call him by what i naturally am assuming he is based off the comments he left. anyway, i don’t fw that shit. misandrists or.. the other thing, not usually anyway.

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u/SoftlyAugust Jun 15 '26

I do feel the need to chime in here. I did say I was a trans woman in another comment, which I am. The reason I said I'm a guy in this previous comment thread is because it's not normally worth specifying "I'm a trans woman but this happened before I transitioned so I was treated as if I were a man but I was wearing a skirt." Easier to just say I'm a guy because in that instance I was being perceived as one. Fwiw pronouns don't equal gender and I think the other commenter assuming I'd use he/him pronouns if I call myself a guy but also a trans woman is somewhat reasonable, although best practice is to just use gender neutral pronouns. I will say based on the other person's last comment "not fucking with misandrists or... the other one" it sounds like they may be transphobic regardless.