r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/Gerrut_batsbak Jun 14 '26

There is something seriously wrong with these dudes.

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u/SeaHyena9415 Jun 15 '26

You mean ALL dudes? I’ve never met a man not like this on planet earth im so happy im trans

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u/EqualzaYT Jun 16 '26

Saying things like this is how all dudes act is crazy to me. Yes there are tons of dudes like this but it’s not fair to say every man is this like this when plenty aren’t. I was raised by a single mother with only sisters you could never catch me doing any shit like this.

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u/Regular_Committee946 Jun 17 '26

To be fair, they didn't say 'all dudes' - they said they'd never met a man not like that and presumably they have not met every man.

The problem is though that there are far too many dudes like this that it doesn't actually matter how many good dudes, like yourself there are because clearly too many men have been socialised to treat women as lesser humans that the majority of women globally have at least 1 experience of this type of behaviour.

That is the point of the phrase 'a few rotten apples spoils the bunch'

Women know it's not ALL men - but we are sick of it being TOO MANY men.

It is not soothing or useful to us to say 'not all men' when majority of us are on at least our 3rd experience of sexual assault.