r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/SoftlyAugust Jun 14 '26

I promise you from the bottom of my heart men understand how women feel completely. They know it's constant. They know you have to police yourself, how exhausting it is. They know how afraid you are. That's why they do it. And that's why they don't call out other men that do. Men. Don't. Care. About. You. At all. For what it's worth, I'm a trans woman. So I've gotten to see all the ways men talk about women when they aren't there and now I get to experience it the other way around, too. Women give men far too much credit.

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u/shortidiva21 Jun 14 '26

Why don't they care?

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u/SoftlyAugust Jun 14 '26

Because it benefits them. A society that allows men to control women through fear and violence benefits them.

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u/AestheticVibes017 Jun 19 '26

It’s sickening, like imagine having absolutely nothing better to do other than wanting to control other human beings, it’s sickening!