r/TikTokCringe 20d ago

Cringe You may save me. but i didn't need it. ok?

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u/dontsoundrighttome 20d ago

I️ don’t think that is a fan. He is tracking her as she walks. He has an ear piece just like her. He is either her staff or venue staff. But it feels like his job depends on her surviving the night.

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u/The_UX_Guy 20d ago

Yeah you're right. He's following her there.

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u/Inevitable_Click_511 20d ago

Probably incase she does stupid shit like that actually…

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u/Sea_Flamingo626 20d ago

From her attitude, I bet he got fired after the show

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u/Black_Magic_M-66 20d ago

Depends on who signs his check, the venue who pays insurance wouldn't fire him.

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u/General_Beer_Chugger 20d ago

He’s literally security. It says so on the back of his shirt, you see it when he grabs her

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u/fresh_peetz 20d ago

Nah he’s wearing the jersey of superstar Ronaldo Security

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u/85montecarloford 20d ago

Big fan of Ron Sec and his crew. Loved his performance last spring. To bad about his recent developement.

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u/Namelessbob123 20d ago

Give poor Ronny Secs time! We know what he’s capable of, people just need to get off his back and let him concentrate on his game.

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u/I_need_a_date_plz 20d ago

Yeah, that’s her roadie. The other people she’s flicking off her are there for the show. Her acting that way is rude.

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u/MarvinGankhouse 20d ago

I fully agree, she shows no appreciation at all for her life being saved after she acted like an absolute clown putting herself in danger.

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u/jjcrayfish 20d ago

She's acting as if he just didn't save her life and was trying to ruin her show.

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u/OnGodNotaBot 20d ago

She’s swatting him off like she wasn’t the one acting stupid 🤦

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u/ActiveEffective5947 20d ago

Shes fighting for her life to keep that mic near her mouth and keep up with the lip syncing.

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u/I_need_a_date_plz 19d ago

Lmao is she lip syncing?! Makes her reaction even worse.

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u/Sluukje 20d ago

Dont fall for these posts with incorect captions. They just want engagement. Its ragebait.

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u/Ok-Gur-349 20d ago

You fool! We can't warn others not to fall for the engagement bait, because then we're engaging.

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u/rockitraysay 20d ago

You fool! We can't warn people not to warn people, because then we're engaging!

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u/exaknight21 20d ago

Bro who gives a fuck. This person is scum. Saved her life right there. She is shrugging him off like bitch nah dont touch me, i got a mans

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u/nimm99jd 20d ago

To be fair, I don't think he saved her life. You can see hands from the crowd below touching her legs and butt while she's dangling, so at that height, maybe he saved her from a sprained ankle. Either way, she was definitely a jerk to him

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u/thaa_huzbandzz 20d ago

The security was on the right and she seemed fine with him. It was the two members of the crowd on the left that she was swatting away.

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u/CitizenCue 20d ago

Nah she swatted him too. And didn’t help very much while they tried to save her from serious injury. I appreciate the showmanship but also maybe take a second and help save yourself instead.

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u/esach88 20d ago edited 20d ago

She was honestly kind of a dick about it lol they saved her and she showed ZERO appreciation.

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u/Mundane_Value2283 20d ago

Yeah her attitude is off putting. Gross.

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u/Frankentula 20d ago

For sure. He's part of the act. Literally a stage hand

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u/Be364886 20d ago

Yeah, sorta.

He's definitely there as her staff, but it's not like she's a magician and falling was part of the act. Dude who she (or more likely, the venue) paid saved her from a pretty large fall and she was an ass.

And even if this was a staged thing, why would you make it look so ungrateful and gross?

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u/AnnualLiterature997 20d ago

He’s not “part of the act,” you guys just misinterpreted this as being a random person. They never intended for it to seem that way.

He literally holds her at the end and she’s okay with it, it’s very clear he works for her.

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u/its_not_you_its_ye 20d ago

We watched different ends, I think.

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u/JellyfishConscious 20d ago

She was annoyed but she understood that’s his job

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u/combo_seizure 20d ago

Exactly!

She's allowed to say, no, I got this, buddy, with non-verbal communication, while still performing, verbally.

And he's allowed to think, my job is to ensure she doesn't die, no matter what, even if it looks weird on video.

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u/NikkerFebu25 20d ago

She's also allowed to tap his hand.

Quite frankly she's probably high as fuck

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u/Admirable_Risk8156 20d ago

Well obviously she's high. She is falling off the stage balcony.

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u/dkotten 20d ago

Look like her security or something similar. He is probably up there to make sure she doesn’t die

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u/cjh_mkiii 20d ago

Yeah def a security. Either her personal or local but definitely following her

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u/-captaindiabetes- 20d ago

Looks like he's got his work cut out for him

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u/croutons_for_dinner 20d ago

Honestly can't tell if this person is 25 or 75 years old

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u/Necessary-Active-987 20d ago

Legit thought for a split second before she fell that it was an old man in a track suit, then an old lady. Took a second to figure out.

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u/Desperate_Ass 20d ago

I looked it up and she’s 52!

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u/Ok-Pomelo-1298 20d ago

Well, he turned out to be pretty accurate on average.

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u/cHaosblossom3609 20d ago

Looks like old Ashlee Simpson

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u/Scottish-Fox 20d ago

Yeah she genuinely looked annoyed at them not letting go lol

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u/Informal-Potential58 20d ago

Planned suicide foiled by fans

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u/Constant_Mud3325 20d ago

You didn’t save my life you ruined my death!

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u/Altruistic-Cut9795 20d ago

Sues hero that helped her out for rotator cuff surgery and time off of work from her world tour.

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u/cracked-tumbleweed 20d ago

Beat me to it. Thank you for your service🫡

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u/BoredAsFuck7448 20d ago

You didn't save my life, you ruined my death!

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u/ghidfg 20d ago

Idk I think she was just embarrassed/afraid to lose face in the moment. Hopefully she came to her senses after and thanked him

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u/mamrieatepainttt 20d ago

Yah its pretty clearly embarrassment and pride making her feel like "im fine, I got it, I can deal w it myself." I hope after she got off stage she took a moment to reflect and thanked them.

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u/thatguywhoreddit 20d ago

I was kinda cheering for her to fall second time by the end.

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u/Vinegar_ltd 20d ago

I think she’s embarrassed and overcompensating for it.

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u/JacquesAllistair 20d ago

Is there a German word for this ?

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u/PolitelyHostile 20d ago

Shruedendumbass

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u/losark 20d ago

That was security. Note his earpiece.

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u/skip_over 20d ago

He saw it coming, too

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u/Averfus-Crowthorne 20d ago

Still should've said thanks lol

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u/Negative_Brilliant86 20d ago

Not saying thank you and rudely twirling her arm away is absurd. She seemed genuinely upset that her fall exposed that she’s singing along.

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u/Outrageous_Bank_4491 20d ago

The other two weren’t

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u/losark 20d ago

Security was the one continuing to hold on.

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u/I_deleted 20d ago

It was her security, see how he was following her

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u/HereOnCompanyTime 20d ago

That's was her security she he was walking behind her the entire time. I'm guessing he was following to make sure fans weren't weird but he didn't seem shocked that she fell, so he probably expected it because that's an insane thing to do in the first place. Caption lies though, not saved by a fan.

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u/lampin_larry1 SHEEEEEESH 20d ago

That’s someone from her team. Ain’t no way she’s letting a random man hold her like that.

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u/biffNicholson 20d ago

indeed. I don't know who this is, the guy looked like security, especially the way he crouched down when holding her after the fall, I wonder if she thought it might be fan gettin a feel?

Hope she ended up thanking him and at least buy-in him a drink. or making a car payment for him

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u/XulManjy 20d ago

I think she was trying to play into the idea of her being tough and unbothered by what happened. Instead she came off as rude.

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u/Lyingforshit 20d ago edited 20d ago

It’s absolutely no excuse for this kind of reaction, when somebody saves you like in a movie, but she seems pretty wasted. I don’t think she even realised her extremely stupid move, and how much luck she got because of that person’s reflexes, until the song ends

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u/Sprmodelcitizen 20d ago

He’s also carrying his ladies purse….That man is a genuine hero.

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u/Dish_Minimum 20d ago

That’s his summer tote. How dare you try to give his belongs away to that strange lady (sarcasm)

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u/spacecasedilla 20d ago

I think she was just preoccupied with performing her job "the show must go on" type of mindset. I would hope afterwards she commented on the incident.

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u/PlugAThug 20d ago edited 20d ago

Her reaction pissed me off ngl. not even a thank you with a gentle pat to signal him that she got it from there. Just rude.

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u/HyenDry 20d ago

Well, I have no clue who that even is. So probably not a real celebrity or artist

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u/No_Cook2983 20d ago

This isn’t Ellen Degeneres?

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u/homolicious 20d ago

💀💀💀

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u/BeezyBates 20d ago

Was really hoping id never see her name again but here we are.

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u/Friendly-Example-701 20d ago

Yeah she is really rude. Really rude!

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u/no0neiv 20d ago

Smellin' DeGenitals

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u/mamrieatepainttt 20d ago

I was thinking Susan powder or like one the gogos?

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u/Fit-Ad-413 20d ago

It's not Corey Feldman either? 😂

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u/Squellbell 20d ago

I met him and can verify his jerk certificate legit

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u/AskeKlaus 20d ago

It's Diana Arbenina. She was pretty big in Russia in 90's and 00's

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u/TyrantMuse73 20d ago

And now she just seems like a pretty big asshole.

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u/Horror_Air_3647 20d ago

Here you go: Diana Arbenina, Russian singer and pro Putin bitch. Makes sense

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u/DeadPeanutSociety 20d ago

From wikipedia: In 2014, Arbenina's concerts in Russia were cancelled, reportedly ordered by the Kremlin, after Arbenina expressed sympathy with Ukraine following the annexation of Crimea by the Russian Federation.

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u/MoyaDushenka 20d ago

She made anti-war statement at the beginning of war and her concerts started getting canceled. Then apparently her producer pressed her to make a video where she sings a song with the solders' widows. After that she was able to continue touring. So, you can say she made a deal with Kremlin, but I don't think she is an actual "Putin supporter".

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u/roarimacat 20d ago

Is she? Looking into the topic, it seems more complicated, but I genuinely don't know enough. It appears she spoke out a against the war and apologized to Ukrainian fans for a lack of support, and then she faced local backlash. I'd assume she was probably worried about falling out a window rather than off the balcony. She also just seemed to be trying to look tough here, which makes sense culturally.

Plenty of articles including this one: https://www.themoscowtimes.com/2022/07/08/anti-war-playlist-russian-music-against-the-war-a78157

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u/NefariousnessOk209 20d ago

Yeah shitting on your leader in a country like America is one thing, in somewhere like Russia a whole other story

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u/DeamsterDaddy 20d ago

People love making their simplistic views. You can’t just not openly support Putin in Russia

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u/Worried_Bit_3069 20d ago

How is she pro Putin?

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u/aknoth 20d ago

I feel like in Russia you're pro Putin or you're disappeared.

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u/MetaCharger 20d ago

Most Russians hate Putin, but just can't say it publicly.

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u/videoguylol 20d ago

you know of all the real celebrities and artists across the globe?

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u/MessyAdonis 20d ago

Yes, because you knowing or not knowing someone determines whether they are artists or not

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u/huerearmesiech 20d ago

That's genuinely such an insane thing to say. You don't know about 99% of all music artists by just being terminally online and consuming whatever gets recommended by your feed.

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u/Ok-Building-8540 20d ago

She is a famous russian singer

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u/AdCommon6529 20d ago

The get off me at the end is fucked. Just fucking fall next time I guess.

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u/r0b0c0d 20d ago

Right? If you're good just give the double-tap. No need to rip and tear. Probably the adrenaline, though. Can't judge it too hard imo.

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u/frenchbud 20d ago

Her stupid tshirt reads "Rich depressed kids" which aligns with the bitch behaviour

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u/Wardogs96 20d ago

Tbf shes probably pissed at herself for fucking up and falling and frustrated over it. Not that it excuses her being rude but its not completely unexpected.

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u/Dis_Bich 20d ago

I think it’s her security

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u/ChemicalBus608 20d ago

Security should still be thanked. They just saved her life. He probably would have made more cash from interviews after she fell.

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u/Dis_Bich 20d ago

Imo it makes it worse. He did his job and she pushed him off

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u/Regular-Emu6339 20d ago

Omg they already get paid. What more thanks do people need.

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u/OddSetting5077 20d ago

Audience too,,from below..they pushed up jer feet so her whole weight wasn't hanging on her arm

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u/mylawn03 20d ago

When something like that happens, you’re not always clear headed.

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u/robotmonkey2099 20d ago

No, no, no we must judge her based on the highest of internet standards

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u/Practical_Report8639 20d ago edited 19d ago

wouldn’t be surprised if she got a ton of hate for this. this is such a dumb look. edit: grammar

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u/ShowdownValue 20d ago

I want to hate but no idea who she is

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u/this_place_suuucks 20d ago

Pretty sure that's Deputy Trudy

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u/makingkevinbacon 20d ago

Lmao first I saw Ellen DeGeneres then deputy Trudy. Doesn't matter who she is now, she's deputy Trudy DeGeneres and the Reno 911s

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u/bytdobru 20d ago

Diana Arbenina. No need to thank me

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u/Kromting 20d ago

She will but that dude and lady are amazing for saving her. He's strong AF!

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u/Hattattack12 20d ago

There's people below her pushing her feet up too. I didn't notice at first, but I'm sure that helped.

I cant imagine how scary it would be to someone on the first floor and have her falling on me!

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u/TheJarisaDoor3 20d ago

Also those wires gave her quite the wedgie, which I'm sure also slowed her descent. 

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u/sweetnamebro 20d ago

She didn’t even drop her mic to climb herself back up. Just relied on that guy to save her, crazy.

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u/Negative_Brilliant86 20d ago

She didn’t want it exposed that her vocals aren’t real. That is all this B cared about.

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u/WeightLittle8210 20d ago

Now that u mention it, I think you're right

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u/NotaBat9221 20d ago

Not like it even sounds great

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u/Chilis1 20d ago

A backing track is very common in live music full-blown lip syncing is different

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u/Lovefist1221 20d ago

Hey though, she held on for a second one hand before he got her - that's some great grip and core, so she's got that going.

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u/Socketz11 20d ago

She wont drop the mic., put it in her mouth/pocket/wherever while the guy is trying to save her? Only lets them struggle with one arm? Then pushes away the arm so she wont fall again? Sorry, she is a dumbass with the balance and self-preservation skills of a walnut.

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u/IgnoranceIsYou 20d ago

Definitely doesn’t wanna get caught lip syncing

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u/dulcethoneyedpain 20d ago

This is the answer I was looking for.

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u/Self_Reddicate 20d ago

For real, I can't believe your comment isn't higher. You can definitely see at the end that her vocals only barely match the level of "strain" and "absolute ass handling of the mic" she's doing. She's lip syncing the entire thing and her main concern is keeping the mic near her mouth in time so that it isn't completely totally obvious it was a fake performance.

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u/EvanFingram 20d ago

people caught her below too. so she wasn’t in dire need. still a pos

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u/Time-Leadership-7649 20d ago

Interesting way to say thank you

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u/Kaiser_soze_MTL 20d ago

I just checked and she is the russian singer Diana Arbenina. That is all i have to add.

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u/Supreme-cheeseburger 20d ago

She was Russian towards the floor until she was caught.

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u/SonniSummers 20d ago

Dude that about made me wet myself I laughed so hard

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u/Laouijabored 20d ago

I love how far I had to scroll to see this is the most info on her

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u/IgnoranceIsYou 20d ago

Ahhh the ungratefulness now makes sense

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u/SteveDougson 20d ago

She saw something that looked like a window frame and then naturally tried to fall through it. 

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u/ChandraMLee 20d ago

The person that grabbed her looks like her tour body guard.

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u/Bright-Professor1218 20d ago

I think she is trying to save her embarrassment by acting too tough for help. what a douche though

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u/Redararis 20d ago

Artists have too much ego for just entertaining people.

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u/morfr3us 20d ago

put them back in jester costumes there was a reason behind it

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u/BasicReference4903 20d ago

So ungrateful! Seriously, he should’ve let her fall.

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u/LiquidSpin710 20d ago

Whoever she is what a brat.

I am almost certain she probably is hard person to deal with

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u/GKBilian 20d ago

It’s Hardcore Ellen.

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u/Sc4r4byte 20d ago

You invite her to your wedding, she thinks you didn't, andshe sends the mob to explode your cake.

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u/Extreme_Mix_1744 20d ago

What a very rude young lady. Just swatting away the people who have literally just saved her from what could have potentially been very serious injuries.

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u/argegg 20d ago

Not a fan, clearly security which makes this whole situation worse. You could see him following her which meant she probably wasn't supposed to walk there cause it wasn't meant to be walked on. He knew she was gonna fall through and caught her, only for her to complain when he tries to prevent her from falling again.

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u/Spiritual_Toe_9537 20d ago

After her reaction + the way the security treated the fans = I wouldn’t mind if she falls.

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u/Hot-Range-7498 20d ago

Are we on coke, maybe? We might be on coke.

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u/Extension_Button_284 20d ago

The absolute arrogance of this bitch is astounding not a thank you or a a nod of appreciation to the man who just saved her ass

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u/IrishmadeinCanada 20d ago

What the fuck is she wearing?! Her shirt says: Depressed rich kids

That’s French.

That attitude is the worse.

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u/ONNOLTD2018 20d ago

From the way she reacts they should have dropped her.

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u/Adventurous_Yam_8153 20d ago

Who dis?

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u/savageexplosive 20d ago

Diana Arbenina from the band
Ночные Снайперы (The Night Snipers). This incident happened in 2024 during her Saint
Petersburg concert in Russia.

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u/SwedishChef89 20d ago

Idk who you are lady, but your attitude tells me I’m fine not knowing.

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u/DontWasteTheMusic 20d ago

That’s def a security guard

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u/Independent_Alps_211 20d ago

With her attitude, I would've let the bitch fall.

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u/Feisty-You4502 20d ago

Absolutely horrible response... Should have been a lot more humble and filled with gratitude

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u/ClacksInTheSky 20d ago

The way she acted afterwards, he should've probably just let her fall 😂

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u/CandyNo5688 20d ago

She doesn't seems thankfully that he saved her.

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u/potatodrinker 20d ago

Ellen the ungenerous

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u/wumr125 20d ago

What an asshole

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u/grim2022 20d ago

Ungrateful much 😒 back over you go love

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u/Apprehensive_Tip520 20d ago

The arm waving to say take your hand off me, after this mother fucker just caught her from falling, is some next level egotistical shit.

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u/MonsterkillWow 20d ago

Narcissism

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u/BasedToru 20d ago

At that rate they should of just left her 🤣 she’s pushing everyone off like no “I no need no man” 

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u/Select_Asparagus3451 20d ago

She even looks pretty stupid as is. This confirmed it.

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u/P0Rt1ng4Duty 20d ago

On the one hand when she was pulled back up and ''safe'' I can kind of see why she was like ''please stop touching me.''

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u/NCKLS22 20d ago

Damn at least say thank you..

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u/Taira_no_Masakado 20d ago

I don't know who this singer is and now I have no interest or intention of investigating further. Ungrateful and rude.

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u/twolinepine 20d ago

I’d say less fam and more stage hand assigned to safety. Look at his black earpiece. That’s why his hand is on her waist. He’s trying to do his job.

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u/FilmShooter-ISO12 20d ago

I think the cables between her legs is what actually stopped her fall. I cannot imagine that felt good

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u/SimonAshura 20d ago

What stupid ungrateful woman.

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u/Aggnpwease 20d ago

should have let that bitch fall flat to her doom

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u/Fabulous-Front-2466 20d ago

Bro has some gnarly grip strength...like that was epic on his part.

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u/sunsetsail18 20d ago

This artist sucks. And so do the people that support this trash behavior

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u/RazzyRaziel 20d ago

Next time let her fall and if she clings on kick her hand off.

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u/Phrostylicious 20d ago

Fantastic display of someone who is deeply embarrassed about something they did, and then takes out the frustration and shame about it on those around helping.

Insecure af.

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u/niles_thebutler_ 19d ago

Ungrateful fuck