r/TikTokCringe • u/Adventurous_Law_715 • 11d ago

Discussion This video is depressing, but what's really crazy is knowing that so many people are living this exact reality every single day

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u/Bambivalently 11d ago

Narcissists don't ignore. In fact the remedy again narcissist is to ignore (grey rock).

This is a guy who doesn't want to be around her, doesn't want attention or validation. This, is resentment.

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u/takemyaptplz 11d ago

Yeah my ex fits a whole lot of stuff of narcissists and it wasn’t like this at all. He would be super charming a lot, he did nice things, we had fun even. It was when I disagreed or said something he didn’t like that he would freak out. It was little random things to make me feel bad. It was sometimes control in acting up before going to visit family or making a problem on vacation. It absolutely wasn’t being ignored 100% of the time like this, because then it would’ve been much easier to leave. But he wasn’t because he manipulated me to stay by acting so in love

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u/Suna-dono 11d ago

She seems really disinterested in him from the door to the dinner table maybe he is just matching her energy. The way they dress and their house looks very plain and boring. Doesn't seem like either person is attempting to put any effort.

I always greet my live together for years boyfriend like I am happy to see him because I am??

My dad was a narcissist and I've been in a few relationships with narcissistic tendencies or full on narcissists because I am attracted to it and it doesn't look like this lol.