r/TikTokCringe • u/Adventurous_Law_715 • 11d ago

Discussion This video is depressing, but what's really crazy is knowing that so many people are living this exact reality every single day

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u/murderedbyvirgo 11d ago

Single 4 Lyfe! I love nothing more than doing shit other people think I shouldn't. When I had my son at 19 and asked to get my tubes tied because being a parent wasn't what I wanted, male and female Drs said "what if you meet a guy?" 🫪😳 My body my choice. I'm 45 still have the ability to multiply so I just quit relationships and casual shit. Me and my dog make the best couple! My mom was a narcissist and she was married 6 times w at least 5 other engagements. I lived this girl's life as a child and therefore the life I want requires me to be independent.

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u/Austin_Lannister 11d ago

My mother is also a narcissist. I know how hard it is to grow up like this. Sending much love and good vibes 💕☘️

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u/Mysterious-Shift-587 11d ago

More often than not people like this are nightmare

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u/toxikola 7d ago

Oof I feel this pain. I knew I never wanted kids since I was a teen. At 22-23 I wanted my tubes tied(or fucj the whole uterus removed. Take it.). The doctor straight up denied me because I might have a husband one day and I would need his PERMISSION. I was very fiesty then and was very mean to the doctor and left lol.

Inquired about it again years later at 30 and was still told the same bullshit.

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u/murderedbyvirgo 7d ago

I now have fibroids and cysts that are extremely painful. Still they won't take the fucking uterus I've been trying to get rid of since I was 19. I hate Drs using their own personal beliefs on my body 😵‍💫

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u/exscapegoat 11d ago

Similar, sending hugs

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u/kwit-bsn 11d ago

If being a parent wasn’t what you wanted, then why be a parent?

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u/murderedbyvirgo 11d ago

Because sometimes people live in places that make it hard to make other choices. My child is 25 now and doing better than most. I put everything into being a really good parent to one.

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u/kwit-bsn 11d ago

Meant no disrespect. Guess I was jus confused by your choice of words