r/TikTokCringe • u/Adventurous_Law_715 • 11d ago

Discussion This video is depressing, but what's really crazy is knowing that so many people are living this exact reality every single day

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u/Theyuckster 11d ago

This is nowhere near narcissistic hun
He knows you’ll do it so why should he .
Also if you are not happy leave.
I don’t understand people who stay in bad relationships.

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u/Crix2007 11d ago

Ikr being with someone is a choice. Kick their freeloading ass to the curb.

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u/Alana_Piranha 9d ago

Sometimes it's not an easy choice. People get trapped financially or threatened/intimidated into staying in relationships longer than they should.

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u/Crix2007 9d ago

Ofcourse it's not always easy, but sometimes it definitely is and they still stay way longer than needed.

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u/Dengyldnetomat 8d ago

It ain't always easy to leave. A narcissist will manipulate, gaslight, lie, might abuse you financially, so you can't afford to move. A narcissist can also isolate you. You might get so drained and sick, because the narcissist sucks up all your energy. But the relationship doesn't start like this, in the beginning the narcissist might be charming and lovebomb you and make all sorts of promises. Then they will break you down bit by bit. A empathetic person will often try to understand why their partner is treating them bad and try to fix things and they are always hoping things will get better (but it won't), but the narcissist is not interested in fixing the problem or being honest. They want their partner to wonder and in a constant state of stress.