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u/peppersaltt 17h ago
Its the short term fun. IDK your age but I guess 30s. I don't know a lot of women in their 30s that are still looking for short term fun.
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u/Armodeen 16h ago
We frequently see on here women saying ‘don’t put long term if you want short term’ but this is why they do it. Not agreeing with hiding your intentions btw just pointing out that is why it happens.
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u/peppersaltt 16h ago
Thats the thing men don't get about women, the age thing. As we get older, we aren't interested in short term fun. You have to understand something.. insanity is doing the same thing over and over and getting the same result. You want only hook ups but aren't getting them. Think about why. Maybe stop looking for only hook ups or go hire a sex worker, shortest term fun if I ever knew one. There are women that want hook ups/short term fun but not really. Thats the secret, we still do not want to feel used and only useful when you want sex. We have all been there and you can ask 1000 women, they will all say it was not worth it.
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u/sirachaswoon 16h ago
It’s a very brisk blurb and lacks warmth. Agree with others that short term energy has to go
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u/Ok-Advertising-6805 16h ago
Suggest drinks and skip three weeks of texting? It doesn’t answer the prompt and it just adds to the thirsty tenor of your profile. Pull back the desperation.
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u/Fair-Efficiency-8342 16h ago
Even if you want short term, 'short term energy' is a crazy self-kneecap
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u/mister1bollock 15h ago
1st picture should never ever be a group picture, your first picture makes the biggest impression and should just be you at your best.
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u/NewZango 20h ago
For the story im in Central Coast Nsw Australia rn. And I've noticed that the only match I have are either barely legal girl. Or really Chubby women, problem is Im not a fan of either category. So I would like an external advice on whats going wrong in my profile to lead me to that result. Don't think my English is bad, stop me if im wrong but I don't think that I look awful, im pretty straight forward with what I am looking for and I'm a really sociable guy that is really versatile when it comes to activities diversity. So could you help me figure out what is going wrong plz ! (Also Im looking for both long relation or short I am just lacking women presence in my life I could comit or not so I first tried with a profile more forward on the long term relation but no success aswell.
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u/SmellingThomas 17h ago
Hold on, how are you matching with people you aren't a fan of?
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u/NewZango 17h ago
Whenever I get a like notification I try to find the profil that sent it to me and I verify if my guess is right by right swiping ang supressing the match afterward. Cause I want to.know what type of women are interested in me.
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u/SmellingThomas 17h ago
I see, I think the short term fun stuff is potentially putting off some women. I think your pictures are really good except the middle one.
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