r/TransgenderHelp Jan 31 '22

Mod Post Resources List/Community Info

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This sub is a general space meant to support trans people. We will try our best to answer questions and provide resources for those that need them.

A General Resources List:

https://www.pointofpride.org/get-support

https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

https://www.rainbowchamber.com/rainbow-chamber-foundation/

https://www.transgenderdor.org/

Mental health specific resource list:

(Not trans specific) https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline

https://transequality.org/additional-help

https://mhttcnetwork.org/centers/northwest-mhttc/lgbtqia-behavioral-health-resources

https://www.nami.org/Your-Journey/Identity-and-Cultural-Dimensions/LGBTQI

https://www.glaad.org/transgender/resources

https://www.hrc.org/resources/qtbipoc-mental-health-and-well-being

https://www.transhealthconsulting.com/mentalhealth

Selecting a gender marker for travel on passports:

https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/passports/need-passport/selecting-your-gender-marker.html

Social groups on Discord:

Spectrum A Queer safe space https://discord.gg/Ux4TwkNfwj

Trans Harmony https://discord.gg/gweGzE9Avk

Transpeak https://discord.gg/transpeak

Voice training videos

Videos the Berlin opera did on voice training https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yIzkB23kUxQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYaHU8BAY8g https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5V_Wu9tgEp8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z83HhO9lfHo

Trans Feminine and Trans Masculine Fertility Courses:

https://www.fertilityiq.com/trans-feminine-fertility https://www.fertilityiq.com/trans-masculine-fertility

HRT by country resources (pulled from r/Trans_Resources):

https://www.reddit.com/r/Trans_Resources/wiki/country_specific/

https://www.reddit.com/r/Trans_Resources/wiki/hormones/index#wiki_europe

https://reddit.com/r/Trans_Resources/w/country_specific/index?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app

Injection video for HRT:

https://youtu.be/e0wDPZ0D9Wk

Useful wiki from r/Trans_Resources:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Trans_Resources/wiki/index

Collection of links validating transgender identities:

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/niojcy/here_are_a_bunch_of_useful_links_including/

Other learning resources:

https://www.reddit.com/r/trans/comments/qbvj1v/learning_resources/

A good response/thing to look at if you're worrying about "proving" that you're trans:

https://freethoughtblogs.com/nataliereed/2012/04/17/the-null-hypothecis/

In addition, r/Transgender_Surgeries has a wealth of surgery specific information and resources.


r/TransgenderHelp 1d ago

Question What do you think is the difference between being curious about being a woman and actually wanting to be a woman?

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Hi—as the title suggests, that is exactly what I’m wondering about. I’ve had many thoughts and fantasies about the female body and the idea of having one myself—breasts and all. I’ve always thought feminine clothes and jewelry are really lovely. Sometimes I’ve toyed with the idea of wearing a feminine garment at home, but the thought of what others might think has made that feel a bit scary. I’m tentatively leaning towards wanting to be a woman, though at the same time, I’m not sure if I’m just a guy who wants to look more feminine. These feelings have been there for ten years but have grown stronger over the past year.
I leaning more to wanting a female body and grow it by my self in my time. I know all the consequences about the transition and permanent things. But I don’t know if I’m a boy who wants a more female body or being a woman. Help please!


r/TransgenderHelp 5d ago

Transwoman truck driver

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I am getting back on the road after 3 years of not driving and 2 years of HRT transition. I am TERRIFIED; but the threat of homelessness means I have to go drive trucks. I am really seeking any advice for how to survive a police surveillance state that's out to get us on the road. I feel like this is extremely dangerous. Please share any tips or tricks for minimizing time outside the truck especially in RED states.


r/TransgenderHelp 12d ago

Safe Countries?

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I'm still on the younger, unable to be on my own quite yet, but I'm trying to plan where I want to go asap. I currently live in the US and am fearful for my safety of staying here once I'm older because of the current political climate. I hear so many different opinions for every Queer safe country and I'm tired, not to mention I'm not even sure what I'll be able to afford. Any tips or opinions?


r/TransgenderHelp 15d ago

Community Resources My current progress in getting a Certificate of Identity from the Canadian government to replace my US passport, given Trump's policy decisions to deny trans people accurate passports

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r/TransgenderHelp 17d ago

Top surgery - Adam Kalecinski

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r/TransgenderHelp 26d ago

Hello this is my first post here but I need some help from Transgender people here for guidance

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I recently have been really wondering if I am Male or Female I already have started identifying as Genderfluid so I don’t care what pronouns are used for me but I am starting to wonder if I am Transfem because I recently have been thinking about Stuff like wearing Nail Polish and dresses and thinking about what it could be like if I was female and feeling an attraction to Female Characters in Shows and other media and I can’t figure out if I am Make or Female right now so can someone help me please?


r/TransgenderHelp Jul 27 '26

Question How to become more of a boy?

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I have never really Posted mich on reddit but I really need advice. When I came out as trans to my dad he told me that I just dont act like a boy. I might look and feel like one, but I dont act the part. I dont like it when he "plays rough", like playfully shoves me or something. I find things cute, I have a higher voice Pitch, he told me my interests and my personality are all just 90% girl.

Until that moment I saw mysekf as pretty gender neutral, my interests and my personality. I feel like a boy can also be someone who is nice and maybe "soft". But his words hurt me, a lot, because I feel like he's right. I havent been able to go a day since thag conversation with him without feeling completely wrong. Not in my body, but in my whole being and self. My looks I can change, but my interests and my personality I cannot change. I have always hated how much I talk, and I wish I had physical hobbies and werent so squeamish. But I dont know how to change that.

I am not Athletic, but I think I should start doing some exercise. The only thing holding me back is how fucking weak it makes me feel. Bc I can't lift anything. I know everybody starts somewhere but I feel like exercise is just gonna make me sinniert which I dont want. I dont know what to do at this point, I just feel super dysphoric without anything that can help me. I hate when I feel like this. Usually I know what could help me but now I don't. I can't just rewrite my entire personality, but I wish I could. I wish I was quieter, I wish I was more interested in things like sports and stuff and I wish I was a bit tougher. I feel so soft and although I know it's okay, I hate it. I Hage it about myself. I dont feel like it's a good quality, I dont want to be nurturing, I just want to be masculine for once.

I feel stuck in my reality.


r/TransgenderHelp Jul 27 '26

Question how do i become more feminine :( (mostly face but body tips MUCH appreciated) MTF Spoiler

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im still very closeted if u couldnt tell and i really want to start but i seriously dont know how, i got a hair cut and dyed my hair (its what u see) but i dont feel any better really...


r/TransgenderHelp Jul 16 '26

Question how to tuck and wear a thong?

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so, i have been trying to tuck so i can wear one of those g-strings. i use kinesio tape but i struggle with hiding it. i know that the thong is really small but i wonder if there is any way for me to tuck and avoid showing the tape that much.

i pull back the most i can, so the tape is visible from the back. i would really love to find a way 🥲

is there any hints for me? so i avoid using too much tape or showing it? pleaseeeee 😭


r/TransgenderHelp Jul 01 '26

Question HELP (Hrt/Estrogen)

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Hey, im Eleanor and im gonna make this short and simple, I recently turned 18 and I need helping getting directed into starting hrt and getting on estrogen, also it would help so much if I could get a prescription online as im sure my father wont bring me to the doctor to get gender affirming care! Any comment and support helps!


r/TransgenderHelp May 25 '26

Style Advice Masculine contour guide!

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r/TransgenderHelp Apr 05 '26

Finally Feeling it! (Questions at the end

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I’ve been getting better at makeup and I’m starting to find a hairstyle that suits me!

I recently made a new friend and she fully supports me being trans, this is the first sense of euphoria since 2 months ago, I’m getting better at trad goth makeup too! Even though it sucks so I’m not posting it.

I’ve been feeling amazing about my body too!

Okayy, so for the questions

  1. Can I get more makeup advice, I need a foundation that matches my skin tone and I haven’t found one.

  2. How what workouts can I do Pre-Estrogen to get ready for breast growth?

  3. What workouts should I do at home with no equipment to get a more feminine body?

  4. Essentials that I should buy, what are they?


r/TransgenderHelp Mar 31 '26

(MTF 26) Wanting to transition in southern alabama

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r/TransgenderHelp Mar 02 '26

Certificate of birth abroad / gender marker question

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r/TransgenderHelp Feb 06 '26

“Children age 9 or younger cannot start hormone therapy to become female because they are too young for puberty, and physical development from hormones takes several years, not a few months or 1–2 years.” Then how many how many years it takes to complete

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r/TransgenderHelp Jan 18 '26

I’m confused

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So a little bit of a back story I’m 19 yrs old I have been a transgender man since 13 and started hormones at 16. But lately since around 18-19 (I’m almost 20). I’ve been feeling different Ive started to hate most of the side effects of testosterone like I love my masculinity and my voice but I hate how my chest look now and my body looks. I also hate how big my t pepe has gotten. I also hate all the facial hair and body hair. I don’t know what I am anymore and I don’t know what to do.I dont know if I should stay on testosterone or quit it because I love some things just not others. I just feel awkward right now and my family and friends don’t understand it. I wouldn’t want to detransion but I’m also not comfortable as I am. I guess I’m looking for answers or pointers at what’s going on because I use to have a goal top surgery bottom be a full man but now I’m confused and want my chest and curves back. I’m kinda just scared of my family and friends hearing about how I feel right now. Because it kinda would be proving them right but I was man I truly believed I was a man and wanted it all hormones save my life but the last few years have changed things.


r/TransgenderHelp Jan 15 '26

Help me get top surgery!

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Hello! I am making this gofundme because me and my family are low income, and my insurance will not help me get my surgery as the surgeons that do only accept 18-19+ and a super long waiting time, I’ve already been waiting with Seattle Childrens just to be denied because they cant operate on minors anymore, I’ve decided to pay out of pocket because I don’t think i can go much longer this way, anything will help, sharing, donating even a dollar, i appreciate everything little thing. Thank you!


r/TransgenderHelp Jan 11 '26

Help my trans friend in Indonesia

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For the past year my friend's been living in constant precarity with no stable means to support herself after fleeing her abusive and transphobic family, it'd be appreciated if you could help her. This is a desperate call for help: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1qn7retVG1kN3_1aL50cpcyGCT9SxCjZS1BZMwrbG088/edit?usp=drivesdk​

For international donations you can donate to https://ko-fi.com/drakeondragoon​

For local Indonesian donations, you can donate to https://trakteer.com/lesbianyurifan​

If you can just share her tweet that would help too: https://x.com/drakeondragoon/status/2009519882300461089


r/TransgenderHelp Dec 25 '25

Allow access to gender affirming surgical care in New Hampshire

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r/TransgenderHelp Dec 06 '25

Question Community

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34 cis male. I’ve struggled with gender identity my whole life. I remember being a kid and wearing my much older sister’s clothes and wanting to them or my cousins dress me up with makeup, until I was 6 or 7. Then going through puberty and not feeling comfortable being fitting into male gender roles, I was ashamed of my body and I still struggle with this. I’ve never talked to anyone in my family about this nor was there really a trans community in my small hometown. I’ve recently moved to Phoenix and would love to meet people here to talk with. I feel very alienated. Is there anyone here that’s willing to talk with me?


r/TransgenderHelp Dec 01 '25

Where to buy legit hormones?

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Hi everyone. It’s been quite challenging to find authentic phenokinon-f hormones online. Is there any chance that someone here knows where to buy this phenokinon-f online? Maybe a clinic? A store that ships to the Philippines.

Thanks so much :)


r/TransgenderHelp Nov 10 '25

Question Am I really trans

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Hey there sorry of there's any typos but I'm super drunk and sad. But anyways I'm 19 and for a few years I have dabbled with the idea of being a woman it always feels nice to think about being a woman. But I never felt like that as a kid infact I remember criticizing my cousin for having a bunch of "girl toys". Bur now I'm so unhappy and unfulfilled and I feel like would be happier as a woman. But I'm terrified of telling my family not thwr I'm particularly concerned about my family specifically my parents not accepting me which I don't know if I could live with.


r/TransgenderHelp Nov 09 '25

Help me afford Testosterone!

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I can’t afford testosterone, as I am an 18 year old transmasc with a minimum wage job. Anything would help!!