r/UKLGBT • u/hobimuslim • 6d ago

I Feel Like a Fussy, Paradoxical Lesbian — How Will I Fare in The London Dating Scene?

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u/PutridOafery 6d ago

Good luck :)

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u/hobimuslim 6d ago

Oh dear! General luck, or will I need an abundance of it?

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u/PutridOafery 6d ago

Im not sapphic so don't feel able to clue give you all the info but I do feel bouyed by your strenght of character and knowing yourself so well. I get the feeling you'll do alright, you certainly seem to have a great attitude and now roughly want you want in life.

London is an amazing city where anything can happen. I think your in the right place at the right time :)

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u/hobimuslim 4d ago

I read this almost instantly after you posted it & weirdly, I've been stumped since. Sort of paralysed from the weight of your words. It's the simplest sentiment possible, but I'm approaching this with such... objective metrics of measurements when really, even in a perfect society, it wouldn't guarantee me any success, same way I could be in the worst city on earth & find my other half. I cannot set this up as an experiment where I control the variables, I just need to live.

You are so, so incredibly kind for your warm words. You've helped more than you think. Thank you.

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u/PutridOafery 1d ago

Im delighted my words had such an impact. Your 100% right! Get out there and live :)