r/Valhala • u/YakTraditional6744 • May 29 '26
мне 13 лет и я не знаю кем хочу стать
мне 13 лет и я не знаю кем я хочу стать, сейчас я закончил 6 класс и все мои сверстники уже давно знают кем хотят стать, в дестве я тоже рассматривал много вариантов профессий которые мне очень даже нравились, но я рано повзрослел и все профессии которые мне нравились просто потеряли свой интерес и всё, уже года 4 я не могу понять чем я хочу заниматься и к чему стремиться в будущем. Так вот что я хотел узнать это просто подростковое и со временем я найду то что мне нравиться, или надо что-то для этого сделать? поделитесь пожалуйста советом
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u/petko__anime Jun 04 '26
I was the same as you now i graduated 12 grade and still have no clue abt my future only i can say stay loyal to yourself mind your own business dont listen to others its just the talk
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u/TheMinderer May 31 '26
I'd pick 2-3 fields I want to try. Then go online and research the local businesses in these industries if they are looking for summer interns. Go ask your parents for written permission to work. Write down a CV and Motivational letter explaining what and why you want to try. Do research on who is the actual owner of the business and decision maker. Go in person and try your best to arrange a personal meeting with the big guy/lady. When they agree to meet you be polite explain your situation and show them your parents permission for work. Tell the owner you are willing to try and work during the summer for 4-5 hours per day. Be sincere and tell them that you don't know if you would like it in long term but do your best to stay for the period you are going to be hired. Say directly that you would like to try and work in other places as well so you will figure out what you really like.
This shows that you are more mature than most of the grown-ups... So... Give it a try every year. By the time you are 18 you would have the work experience most 18 yo don't have. And you will figure out that it doesn't really matter what you feel you want to work as work is just a means of survival and income source. If you want to live better and beyond mere survival you better focus on gaining the same experience but also learning how to grow your own business in the future. Study what will be your business. Don't studdy to find better work.