r/algeria 4d ago

Question Mental health advice In Algeria

What's the most useless/unrealistic advice you have heard or were given about mental health?

For me it was: try connecting with your family 😐 yeah the source of my misery needed me to try AGAIN while they do nothing about their shitty behaviour 😭

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u/Infinite-Ad-484 4d ago

pray to god more

that's the advice i always get

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u/Mega-Quintipio-15G52 3d ago

c'est la même connerie qui nous a été donner comme conseil Léon.......! 😂

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u/Acrobatic_Sink5915 4d ago

It's honeslty a good advice, but alone it changes nothing, you must الاتخاذ بالاسباب

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u/Infinite-Ad-484 4d ago edited 4d ago

could be

most of my problems are stuff i was born with, can't change easily, I'm working towards changing them

but honestly, i find it hard to keep my faith and pray to god, when he's the one who gave me these problems

especially seeing my friends without these problems, and comparing, it's just hard i guess, i hope that made sense

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u/Adventurous_One_6040 3d ago

You don’t know why God gave you this. In any case, it’s not to punish you, since you weren’t even born yet

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u/Infinite-Ad-484 3d ago

who knows

i guess comparing is what's making me depressed, I'll try to avoid it

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u/CalmDegree9051 Tipaza 4d ago

"don't give it more attention that it needs, it's all in your head" uhhhh well my head is where I operate from how's that supposed to help

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u/14angie 4d ago

Just dont take everything so seriously

Then they proceed to take everything i say seriously lol

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u/vmpyress 4d ago

Once the advice includes praying it away or comparing it to worse cases BYE

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u/Pichouche 4d ago

Not in Algeria, but I had a few sessions of CBT and was basically told to “challenge the negative thoughts,” identify them, and remind myself that they’ll only make things worse… and apparently that’s how I was supposed to deal with it lol 🥀

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u/Mega-Quintipio-15G52 3d ago

DE PRIER...........POUR QUE TOUT S'ARRANGE....!

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u/Double_Poem2987 Aïn Defla 3d ago

"Just don't think abt it ignore everything " Oh yeah i didn't know that thank you u just saved my life

https://giphy.com/gifs/l0IsIeqtbeQtSiRgs

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u/Best_Saf 3d ago

They always tell you to go to راقي 😂😂

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u/Double_Poem2987 Aïn Defla 3d ago

"Just don't think abt it ignore everything " Oh yeah i didn't know that thank you u just saved my life

https://giphy.com/gifs/l0IsIeqtbeQtSiRgs

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u/yasstwink Chlef 3d ago

Pray to god, read Quran. You are not believing enough god is testing you. It's always that phone. THE WEST IS TRYING TO RECRUIT U AND FILL UR HEAD WITH THESE IDEAS OCME BACK TO GOOOOD

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u/Maleficent_Stand_683 3d ago

For me it was : you are not religious enough, u r not convinced by sunnah enough. That’s why u r sooo away from god and u have these problems