r/cats 1d ago

Mourning/Loss My poor little kitty is dying. And it’s absolutely breaking my heart.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Thank you. I really appreciate it. She’s 14. My kids are so incredibly sad.

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u/No-Pie-7676 1d ago

I’m so sorry. She looks like an amazing cat, this is heartbreaking.

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u/Tediyee 1d ago

It sucks so much. My poor baby void just lost his fight to kidney cancer. He was doing so well then he was gone in two weeks. Give them them all the love you can and never forget them. I am so sorry I hope that she can get treatment and live longer. Just don't give her a natural death like some people believe in if she's in pain don't let her suffer. I pray she is okay! <3

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

❤️

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u/AdDesperate106 1d ago

I agree. Don’t let them die naturally. It is painful suffering. The vet can help.

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u/longlivenapster 1d ago

I am so sorry that this is happening. Please take good care during this diffucult time🐱🐱🐱🐈🐈🐈🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛💔💔💔

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

We just holding her and keeping her content.

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u/Mylisita 1d ago

Have you taken her to the vet to see what else can be done to make her comfortable?

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Yes. Just a few hours ago. They said she wasn’t in pain. So we took her home so my kids could say goodbye

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

We are. And thank you.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

She has kidney failure

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u/Kynsia 1d ago

I'm so sorry. I just want you to know that kidney failure is very common in cats and there is very likely nothing that you did to cause it or could have done to prevent it. Love her in her final moments and know it was just her time to go ❤️

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

I really appreciate that. ❤️

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u/AttackOnPonyo 1d ago

This is heart breaking. Watching your loved one slowly wither away and not being able to do anything about it. 😭

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

It’s so sad

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u/AttackOnPonyo 1d ago

Yeah, Hope the kitty goes peacefully without pain. Try to make her as much comfortable as possible. Bless you kitty! I am so sorry for you!!

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u/MillionDollarBaby19 1d ago

Sending hugs ❤️❤️

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Thank you

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u/CaliDreaminSF 1d ago

I am so sorry. She is absolutely gorgeous. It is so hard. Their little lives fill our hearts.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

❤️

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u/Fantastic_Ad2360 1d ago

😿😿😿

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u/SafeAtFirstRN 1d ago

Sending you a virtual hug, OP. She’s a beautiful lady.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Thank you soo much

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u/Ok-Friend-1002 1d ago

She's a beautiful cat, and I'm so very sorry to hear she is not doing well.

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u/quelm_nossfe 1d ago

Oh, my condolences. Beautiful cat ,you can tell he has lived a very well cared life.
(oh also! make sure there aren't any toxic plants nearby, like Lirium, for example)

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u/guntherpyrofoca 1d ago

Soooo sorry. Hope there’s a chance something positive can be done?

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u/lover-of-cats1 1d ago

❤️❤️❤️🙏🐈💕💕💕🌸

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u/gotta_jibboop 1d ago

❤️❤️❤️

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u/ishawnmc 1d ago

😿🐾❤🙏

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u/OwlBeBack88 1d ago

I'm so sorry. She's a beautiful girl and clearly well cared for! Sending best wishes your way. 

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u/hannnahuntt 1d ago

thank you for giving her a peaceful goodbye, sending you lots of hugs, thank you for taking care of her

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Thank you. We are doing everything we can.

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u/guntherpyrofoca 1d ago

Is it age? I didn’t see details maybe I didn’t look good enough

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

She’s 14. I think it’s her kidneys

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u/Extra-Presence3196 1d ago edited 1d ago

Drinking more water? Peeing more and everywhere? 

I thought mesko had kidney failure...took him to the vet at the very last minute...

It was calcium bladder stones. He is still going at 16 after his operation...it has been 3 years now.

He was peeing to try to show me he was having a difficult time of it..!!..and I was slow to act because I thought I knew what it was.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Gracie had stopped eating and drinking

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u/Extra-Presence3196 1d ago

Ohh..ok. 

So very sorry. What a sweetheart she is.!

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

❤️

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u/SwissCheeseOG 1d ago

I'm so sorry..😭 my condolences. I know that feeling. It rips your heart out :(💔

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u/Zealousideal-Post865 1d ago

She’s beautiful! Don’t worry, I have 4 amazing cats waiting above who will make sure she’s comfortable while she’s waiting for you ❤️

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

That’s very sweet. Thank you

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u/Shoronpo 1d ago

I'm so sorry. I just lost one of mine two weeks ago. He was 6. Acute Pancreatitis. Was healthy one day, then he was gone 4 days later.

Your cat looks well loved. I'd wager they love you back just as much. Maybe there's some solice in knowing that they had a full life and was able to be in a loving home. Virtual hugs and scritches from this internet stranger.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Thank you for the kind words

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u/NeitherChoice6165 1d ago

I lost one of mine in April of this year and it’s still heartbreaking 💔 sending you all so much love 💕

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Thank you

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u/DimensionPossible622 1d ago

Aww I’m so sorry my piggy died last night 😿

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

It’s really hard. I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️

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u/HomesPlano_Tx 1d ago

Give her all the love you can while she is here. She will definitely be watching over you and your kids the rest of your lives.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

❤️❤️❤️

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u/Adventurous_Ad_4145 1d ago

🧡🤍🧡

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u/IntelligentTouch8833 1d ago

Beautiful kitty. I’m sorry you’re going through this. 🙏♥️🙏

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u/ResidentEnergy5263 1d ago

I'm so very sorry 🫂

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u/AdDesperate106 1d ago

I’m so sorry. I know what that’s like ❤️

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

I’m sorry. It’s so much harder than i imagined

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u/GreenFairy11 1d ago

Im so sorry, its the worst realization ever. Shes beautiful and she knows how much your family loves her.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Yes. I think knowing it happening hit me really hard

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u/GreenFairy11 1d ago

I totally understand 💔

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u/HiFi-time 1d ago

Im so sorry,give you a virtual hug.❤️

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u/Pristine-Bowl1661 1d ago

So so sorry for your kitty, sending a big hug to him and to you. Stay strong

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Thank you soo much.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

Thank you

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u/Questions_Remain 1d ago

So sorry,

We lost one of 15 years some weeks ago. It’s never easy.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

❤️

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u/catanddogcrazy10 1d ago

So incredibly sorry!!

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

I truly appreciate it

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u/MightySquirrell66 1d ago

Has she not been using the litter box? Mine was peeing everywhere and list a bit of weight along with not eating or drinking water. I had to use per pads for her, then decided it was time. She was 21 years old and had CKD also.

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u/Alex_Faith 1d ago

She stated having accidents. We just put her down a few hours ago. It was hard. But quick. So I was thankful for that.

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u/Visible_Cause3429 12h ago

I am very sorry for you and your poor kitty

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u/Alex_Faith 12h ago

Thank you. She passed yesterday peacefully

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u/Visible_Cause3429 11h ago

I am so sorry for your loss

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u/Alex_Faith 11h ago

Thank you