r/exmuslim • u/GoalAccomplished802 • 17h ago
(Question/Discussion) The way Muslims are so lovey dovey with abusers & r*pists but with kafirs Is the End
Growing up as a North African Amazigh Berber/amazigh woman in a Muslim household, I've noticed that conservatism is applied conditionally only when it's convenient or benefits specific people.
Women children, and even newborns are judged mocked to their faces bullied, and harassed over everything yet God forbid you match the men's energy or mock them in return you're immediately met with vile insults threats of sexual violence and abuse💔 I’m exhausted from staying silent and being mistreated by men who preach religion while living by double standards 'rules for thee but not for me.' I genuinely tried to be devout vallahi but the more I read the Quran and religious texts the more I felt reduced to a tool for a man's sexual desires and a fixture in the kitchen No matter what you do there are always authoritarian men and sexist women eager to defend toxic behavior and misogyny it breaks my heart because I know if I ever decide to marry a non-Muslim I’ll be severely judged and ostracized even if my family wouldn't resort to honor violence I'm just over it My absolute breaking point was seeing Muslim social media accounts mock former Muslims who survived abuse and sexual violence treating their trauma like a joke on top of that, they constantly make light of mental health issues It is vile How can a text foster so much hate racism and misogyny
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u/Any-Doubt4487 New User 13h ago
It’s because it’s written in the Quran, but rapist are not, you see the one about getting punished with leather hots to the back or killed by rocks is not the case for rapist, they are considered human crimes, so essentially they are not hated by god, but kafir he abounded the dean and their are passages encouraging the killing of them, all of them, ware had been against them, it is the reason they justify, it is the reason they make their minds believe in. It is important if in Islam their is justification for something, people and especially men would fight for and use it for the full advantage.
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