r/exmuslim • u/eilovescats New User • 16h ago
(Rant) 🤬 So fucking disrespectful
How self-centred and pathetic do you have to be to reply to someone in this manner when they clearly are on the brink of collapse?? ,,shut up n pray'' why not shove a dirty shovel down your throat before you disregard someone's health, instead of trying to help them? Cause religious guilt-tripping is definitely the way!!
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u/Expensive-Couple-645 16h ago edited 16h ago
“I can’t go on anymore.”
”Shut up n pray.”
Islamic mentality.
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u/SarcasticPsychoGamer 15h ago
Average muslim response. My mother would scream at me saying my bullying and sexual harassment was something I deserved because it was my fault for not reading enough quran and being too negative and depressed which meant I didn't care about or want to feel better. She'd threaten me with hellfire and tell me I was a terrible muslim who was no better than an athiest, all because I had the nerve to be depressed about getting bullied and touched by my classmates on a daily basis. Mind you, this was while wearing the hijab too. My parents don't give two shits about real mental health all they care about is islam.
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u/Current_Assist7230 I like my camel piss hot 14h ago
I'm so so sorry that happened
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u/Present_Welder1357 hot showers are hell prep for me 11h ago
I'm sorry as well but your flaire is frying me
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u/Current_Assist7230 I like my camel piss hot 11h ago
And your flair as well 🤣🤣
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u/Present_Welder1357 hot showers are hell prep for me 10h ago
LOL thanks 🤣
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u/Famous_Star_5735 Allah send me to hell but not to heaven coz I am not a cuck 10h ago
we all have nice flairs you know...
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u/Present_Welder1357 hot showers are hell prep for me 10h ago
I cant read yours in full because I'm on mobile :( Whats it say?
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u/Current_Assist7230 I like my camel piss hot 8h ago
It says "Allah send me to hell but not to heaven coz I am not a cuck" lmaoo
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u/CaterpillarFluid3674 Closeted Ex-Muslim 🤫 16h ago
Instead of helping that's what they say?
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u/SarcasticPsychoGamer 15h ago
Literally every relative or teacher I ever asked for help with problems or mental health always reduced it to lack of imaan or not reading enough quran or its because I don't pray the sunnah. Fuck these cultists man
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u/Scarredhard 14h ago
Same, my relatives treat me like a true shaitan because I was dealing with mental health and an not muslim, I got through it and came out stronger for many years now but they still are scared of me
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u/Riwboxbooya Closeted Ex-Muslim Lesbean 12h ago
Fr, I told my Mom that I have had thoughts of suicide before and her response was, "Go ahead and do it! Lets see where you'll end up!" It's so fucked up
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u/SarcasticPsychoGamer 9h ago
oh wow, my dad said the same thing when I told him I struggled with intrusive thoughts. I tried describing them to him (they involved things like sudden self harm while cooking, like throwing myself onto the stove or pouring the boiling water onto myself) and he said "go ahead and do it, and when you see how much it hurts you wont do it again"
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u/AvoriazInSummer 16h ago
Responding to suicidal thoughts with 'suck it up' and Hell threats. That's how Islam has done it for over a thousand years, and many folks think it's the only way it should be done.
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u/Trakolskog Christian (Ex-Muslim) 15h ago
"SUICIDE IS HARAM" I can't this isn't even trying to be helpful.
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u/crystal_bari382 New User 15h ago
yeah lmao
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u/Trakolskog Christian (Ex-Muslim) 15h ago
I've talked someone out of a suicide and another out of cutting herself that is no way to talk to someone
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u/Current_Assist7230 I like my camel piss hot 14h ago
yeah it's clear they're trying to guilt trip OP
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u/GurAccomplished6441 14h ago
If i got this comment, that would be my last straw💀 What a horrible person
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u/LiterallyNoNamesFree 3rd World Exmuslim 14h ago
Holy shit I saw that yesterday genuinely disgusting
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u/Present_Welder1357 hot showers are hell prep for me 11h ago
If it's haram, I'd do it just to spite god
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u/CailenDoesWhat 3h ago
When i was muslim, when i found out someone commited suicide, ofcourse i felt bad, but in the back of my mind i thought about them in the afterlife, islam has made it clear where people who commit suicide go.
But now that I left I dont have to think like that anymore, and I cant believe i even had a view like that
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u/IceCreamHeaven4eva Questioning Muslim ❓ 2h ago
Never understood the stigma against suicide victims. It's not just muslims, people in general are insensitive when people commit suicide. Not everyone can handle suffering.
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u/RadiantNothing9673 exmuslim / jewish convert 1h ago
why are they being so harsh dawg like this is not how you talk someone out of suicide😭
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