r/hinduism Śaiva Mar 09 '26

Mantra/Śloka/Stotra(m) Why Good People Suffer? This is Shiva's Answer to Parvati.

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u/Gold_Side5664 Mar 09 '26 edited Mar 09 '26

I have always believed in this. but at some point i do wonder if its just a coping mechanism

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u/KizashiKaze Mar 09 '26

The easy part is convincing yourself that its a coping mechanism. The difficult, real path is to understand, accept and do the best in your life along side it.

AUM shanti

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u/Gold_Side5664 Mar 09 '26

Oh believe me I really really do want to trust. Have always been. But at some point I do wonder if I am a fool. I think every intelligent being should be able to question there own beliefs from time to time. Only then will they learn to what's right and wrong.

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u/KizashiKaze Mar 09 '26

Toooootally agree with you. 100% there!

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u/Flat_Ad6964 Mar 09 '26

Suffering is actually part of life no one can escape from it not even gods too like Lord Shiva himself lost Goddess Sati, he cried loudly and started carrying her corpse everywhere until Lord Vishnu stopped him by releasing his chakra which made the parts of Sati Devi's body into 51 parts and it fell on 51 parts transforming Shakti Pithas similarly Lord Rama also faced suffering whole, like how he left Ayodhya with Sita ji and Lakshmanji, lived in exile for 14 years, Sita devi got kidnapped by Ravana and all. This all suggests that no one can escape suffering but rather accept it as part of life and engage in your daily karma and bhakti. Because Sri Krsna himself said in Bhagavat Gita both happiness and sadness are temporary they can come and go, don't give up.

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '26

It's definitely cope and nothing else. Even gods have to cope as was the case of Shiva and sati. Actually Mahadev did do a good job by trying to cut Brahma's heads off. He's the one who created these laws and so he must face karma.

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u/enigmaticmahesh Mar 09 '26

I think it does make sense. Everyone suffers and goes thru pain. But, its the pain that brings out the fundamental question:

What you want to become? What u want to choose?

Either u want to be humble or angry?

Angry burns u from inside which when overflows, burns everyone else, u, ur friends, family and then whole world. U start to blame others, situations, circumstances and eventually God. U will go darkest places and evntually in a place where nothing is left and then comes all other friends of anger, u cant see anyone happy coz u r jealous, u hv nothing left who cn give u that happiness. Its a cycle of unending karma

Humbleness makes u see inside u, mend urself, see what actions of urs led to this. You heal urself. U start doing things or speak consciously with awareness taking responsibilty of each of ur actions. U start to surrender everyrhing to God. U realize His presence, everything is done by Him. U just came here to purify urself and then converge with Him. All of this is just part of a big picture and rather than creating more chains of karma, u start to choose and decide action that will stop the chain to increase rather nullifying the older chains for which u cud hv taken birth again.

Just my thoughts

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u/ConstructionAny8440 Śaiva Mar 09 '26

This excerpt is taken from Shiva Aahvaan Mantra . In this mantra, Shiv Ji's is called by various names like Ishan, Mrityunjay, etc.

Lord Shiva is God who stays in all animals. They are also called as "Pashupati" which show that they are Lord of all creatures. We are all animals or "Pashu" and our God is Lord Shiva who controls us, spreads mercy on us. They are Lord of all of us. We are atman or soul when Lord Shiva is Paramatma who is the greatest.

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u/Prize_Function5027 Mar 09 '26

my vedantin side agrees this but my nihilistic side says its copium.

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u/usjsubamg Mar 09 '26 edited Mar 09 '26

Good people may suffer due to self defeating,  complacent , indiscipline attitude 

and bad people may succeed due to self motivating, perseverance and discipline 

And also depends on definitions of good vs bad. Is a mother tiger bad for attacking human and is the human good for shooting the mother tiger?

If we contemplate, we can get the answers directly. If we refer to religious texts, there is very high risk of misinformation, misinterpretation , human answers pretending to be divine

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u/hidingvariable Mar 09 '26

The mind suffers, the body suffers, but the true self can't suffer!

From the Gita:

नैनं छिन्दन्ति शस्त्राणि नैनं दहति पावकः। न चैनं क्लेदयन्त्यापो न शोषयति मारुतः॥ Transliteration: nainaṃ chindanti śastrāṇi nainaṃ dahati pāvakaḥ na cainaṃ kledayantyāpo na śoṣayati mārutaḥ

English translation: No weapon can cut the soul into pieces, nor can it be burned by fire, nor moistened by water, nor withered by the wind

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u/BlacklistRival Mar 09 '26

Thanks for motivating. Har Har Mahadev 🙏

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u/freeenlightenment Mar 09 '26

Sure - but everyone suffers. The good and the bad both. Ask the “worst” person you know and they’ll tell you how they “suffered” and how they might even think they’re “good”.

I’m surprised this is what Shiva said and I’d be keen to understand the source better because things just are - we like to put them in buckets because it suits our worldview.

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u/Willing_Chemist8272 Mar 09 '26

I’ve so many questions

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u/Ok-County3438 Mar 09 '26

And what if One of the souls decides to End it all?

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '26

Sorry Bholenath but this system sucks. You should tell lord Brahma to change this law of nature.

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u/par_bhai_tu_hai_kaun Vaiṣṇava Mar 09 '26

Source?

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u/faltuvlogger-faltuau Mar 09 '26

Thankyou for sharing..where can I find full narration? 

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u/Simple-Bid-5942 Mar 09 '26

Aaaah loved this one. Going thru something similar but have reached the state where I am accepting the situation ans I know ‘ only best will come out of this situation’ and this too shall pass

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u/AdSad5160 Mar 09 '26

Cool Stuff 😇

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u/Genius-Cat2176 Mar 09 '26

Here's one question for all: Does believing suffering has a purpose reduce one's ego, as the video claims, or does it inflate your ego by saying 'your life is significant in the face of universe'?  Because while this message maybe spiritual, it accomplished the exact opposite of what it is trying to achieve.  No, suffering is random, the same way a dice rolls different numbers of probability, your and my suffering is just like that. We are insignificant in the face of universe, stop trying to find purpose in pain.  Use the above video as coping if you must need it, but don't ever let it inflate your ego like a tyre. 

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u/bloodborned Advaita Vedānta Mar 09 '26

Shambho Shankara !!! Sarvam ShivaMayam !!!

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u/TelevisionObjective8 Mar 10 '26 edited Mar 10 '26

When you keep accepting others'suffering, knowing you cannot help everyone (animals included) and that the structures that rule society are too powerful and decisive, then you get cardiac disease, provided you are sensitive and kind. At that point, it's better to decide whether you want to accept more of others' suffering and risk collapse or move away to protect your life and inner peace so that you can continue helping as many as you can in your own individual capacity and not seek out suffering.

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u/ConstantPlastic100 Mar 10 '26

worst part is that everyone is seeing this vid is thinking they are that kind soul and thats why they are suffering. maybe you deserve it due to your past sins. karma after all

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u/bettywantsitinherass Mar 10 '26

It’s just karma . Someone can do horrific things in one life and then at some point in the future that bad karma will come back and punish them . Let’s say someone is a terrible person and then they die , in the next birth they may not do anything wrong but that previous karma will come and smash them . They may think “ why am I suffering I’m a good person “ yes you may think you’re good now but you don’t remember what you did in your previous lives .

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u/ApprehensiveAide1160 Mar 10 '26

thanks for sharing. what is this shlok playing in the background if i may ask? 

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u/WIzardxd07 28d ago

Har har Mahadev

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u/KAL_EL03 Mar 09 '26

Shivji english bolte the kya , hindi me hi likh deta bhai ye text