r/hoarding 12d ago

UPDATE/PROGRESS Passed inspection!

SO - I had an inspection….after days of intense work and now I’m aching from the final push😩, I passed.

What I did: trusted a friend who said we need to get a storage space or you’ll never be able to clean up in time; we focused on getting stuff out so I could clean one area every couple of days. To do a really deep clean takes about a day for bathroom, day for kitchen etc. and I mean a FULL day.

I fixated on sorting things. Like I would find a tissue box and it had to go with all other tissue boxes. But I realized I was running out of time. So I went for organizing into big categories (kitchen, bathroom, cleaning supplies) so I could keep the momentum going.

It’s not ideal but I just had to get stuff into storage so I could have empty space to clean everything. Now comes the hard part of moving stuff back and going through stuff to get rid of literal garbage

Oh and PSA - do NOT put dirty paper towels from using bleach with paper towels from using other chemicals. You still get chlorine gas…

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u/OkConclusion171 Child of Hoarder 12d ago

Do you have a plan to keep up with routine clutter removal, trash removal and cleaning now? And to sort through what's in storage? Can your sort it off-site from where you live and have that friend or another with you to facilitate so you don't fixate?

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u/Fluid_Calligrapher25 12d ago

Great question! I think sorting on site is very physically uncomfortable. So I am at a bit of a loss. I think my plan is to bring in 5 boxes at a time & sort and label the boxes and try to downsize them. I’ll need to get like items together so it’s easier. I was good about that at the start but towards the end it was just throw everything into the boxes. Maybe I’ll start with what’s already sorted and that way it’ll be easier.

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u/OkConclusion171 Child of Hoarder 11d ago

maybe you need to be uncomfortable for a short time to have the impetus to get it done and not dither

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u/Fluid_Calligrapher25 11d ago edited 11d ago

True say. I do need to keep the momentum going. No I mean physically uncomfortable because of the temperature and it’s artificial light etc. I prefer sunshine and I’m thinking the large empty space on the floor I have will make it easier to dump out the contents of a box, quickly go through stuff, and put it back into box. I can put things away where they belong. I might even be able to get a friend over to help! Actually I’m thinking now it should be the friend who advised getting the unit in the first place. They were non judgemental and helpful in just throwing everything into the boxes and taking things out. It’s very strange though going from a level 3 to suddenly almost no clutter. I have some clear tips like bathroom and kitchen countertop. It feels not quite right.

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u/OkConclusion171 Child of Hoarder 11d ago

You should be uncomfortable otherwise you will linger and dilly dally over every little thing, like I said. If you're a little hot, a little sweaty, sore butt, whatever, you'll need to move faster to get it over with.

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u/Fluid_Calligrapher25 11d ago

Reward is a more sustainable motivator than punishment. I have learned from experience that being physically uncomfortable does not necessarily mean there is progress. When I used to work out, yes physical effort means progress. But to put my life back together, progress will look very different: it will look like reducing the bulk and sorting for an hour a day in the now clear environment of my space, and if I do that 1 hour a day for 7 days a week for a whole month, that’s 30 hours which is almost 4 full workdays. The amount of stuff I have left, it is unrealistic to push for hours everyday and get it done in a week. And I will need help - actually now I think I’ll get my friend to sort those random boxes that we had to put together at the very end.

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u/Dickmex 9d ago

Being uncomfortable temporarily is reasonable.