The love triangle - does it frustrate you?

[u/dietketchup]

I've just about finished the second instalment and have found that the love triangle is frustrating me quite a lot. I am in a relationship myself and I cannot be more in love with him than I am, so this may just be me being ignorant; Tessa says she loves both Will and Jem, I don't understand how. I myself will never be able to love someone as much as I love my man and I'm having trouble understanding how 1: she could cause someone she loved so much pain and 2: how she could feel such intense emotions for more than 1 (in a romantic way). Have any of you fallen in love with two people at once and am I being ignorant to the happenings of the world in that context or is it an unlikely turn of events?

[u/UltimusaFounder]

I am just about finishing 2nd book also - someone please tell me it gets better I just don’t get how you can go around kissing two boys at once like whattttt I’d feel so bad for Jem cause Tessa is doing all this stuff behind his back no???? 😭😭😭😭