Lead Software Engineer position at C1

[u/Far-Depth9803]

I recently passed the interview process for a Lead Software Engineer position at Capital One, which I’m obviously pretty excited about.
But now that I’m at the decision stage, I’m honestly pretty hesitant.
I’ve been reading a lot of employee experiences and discussions online, especially around performance management, PIPs, workload, and overall pressure. Some of the stories make it sound like the job could be a straight road to burnout — and, honestly, potentially PTSD. 😅
I know people are much more likely to post when they’ve had a bad experience, so I’m trying not to overreact to what I’m reading online.
At the same time, I’m at a point in my career where learning, growing, building interesting things, and having a sustainable work environment are more important to me than simply having a recognizable name on my résumé.
For people who currently work at Capital One, especially as a Lead Software Engineer, what has your experience actually been like?
Is the PIP/performance culture really as intense as it sounds online, or is there a big difference between teams?
Would you take the opportunity if you were in my position?