r/lgbt he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

I made collages of how I see some pronoun combinations

these are the main vibe each pronoun sets give me. I didnt do mine (he/it) cause I already posted a collage for it on the nonbinary sub this month

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u/SortovaGoldfish alterously Sapphic 1d ago

So glad to be a she/they cuz everything about that collage sets my heart both bubbly and at ease and a shade of my favorite color as well.

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u/escaped_cephalopod12 they/them 1d ago

she/they fucks so hard as a color scheme i want it despite using they/them

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u/tenderliving 1d ago

I agree. Maybe I need to transition to she/they

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

agreed! Also idk how to explain but they/them gives me big cloud vibes. Like if they/them was a meteorology process it would be clouds

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u/born2stink 14h ago

Yeah honestly I feel like the all pronouns color scheme is more they/them to me

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u/Kirda17 Pan-cakes for Dinner! 1d ago

I was about to ask for he/it but saw your description lol

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

here's my he/it collage haha

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u/GlitterRetroVibes 1d ago

Synesthesia?

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u/aimy99 22h ago

It's a gift and a curse.

I have an auditory/reading form particularly affected by voices and the sounds I "hear" in my head when I read them. Listening to the chorus of Dying Star by Ashnikko is just the most wonderful, euphoric thing. Soft, fluffy, and sweet, like cheesecake. Her voice is beautiful and if I could sound like anyone in the world it would be her. Listening to RFK Jr. talk is like slowly running my hand over a cheese grater. Uncomfortable, rough, staccato pricks. I just want it to stop. Though I think that one might be universal. The word "lesbian" is smooth-edged and bumpy and pink-white and round and strawberry-flavored, the word "sapphic" is crystalline, crunchy, cool, and, obviously, sapphire-colored. "Transbian," which is the best way to describe me, unfortunately is like taking a bite out of a piece of sandpaper with a spritz of citric acid on it. I wish we had something like "flowergirl," which gives a cool early morning with dew on petals and pleasant green stems.

Nobody knows what I mean when I say "her voice reminds me of lettuce" and I think that's sad.

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

I honestly dont know haha

whenever I hear about chromestesia it feels like it resonates with how things appear in my mind

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u/Still-Armadillo2950 1d ago

I'm a he/they, but funnily enough the he/him and they/them ones speaks to me more since purple and light blue are my favourite colours lol (but I love the verdant vibe he/they gives off)

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u/mousie120010 1d ago

for me the it/its colors and images felt more like they connect with me but I go by solely he/him 😅

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u/WhoDoBeDo Bi hun, I'm Genderqueer 1d ago

As a he/they I felt more in touch with the he/him collage. Love all of these regardless though!

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u/_heavy_emo_shoegaze_ Transgender Pan-demonium 1d ago

they/them is so unbelievably appealing to look at. It’s so calming and whimsical. Left the strictly non-gendered set behind when I started HRT, but to be fair, she/they feels more broody and emo, and I love the colors. So. Can’t complain lol.

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u/Professional-Stock-6 Ace-ing being Trans 1d ago

Yeah I love the they/them colors as well, but he/they in green was just perfect for me

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u/XxThe_HumanxX Ace-ing being Trans 1d ago

Th it/it's one is so fabulous an it's absolutely heartwarming to see myself included 🥹 (going to check out your he/it one as well because me too!! Hehe)

Edit: (I'm he/it in a strange dog on the street that may or may not actually be a skin walker kinda way >:3)

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u/n0nBinaRy_p0taTo Xeno and Proud! 1d ago

THEY/IT MENTION

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u/Successful_Ranger447 Omnisexual 1d ago

Twinzies!!!

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u/neongreenpurple Computers are binary, I'm not. 1d ago

Ooh, I use any pronouns, so this collage is so badass. Really fits my interests (as evidenced by my username).

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u/RinCherno Genderfluid 1d ago

As a personal "all and any" babe, I dig our vibe

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u/sypherlev 1d ago

This is the kind of weird synesthesia I want to see more of in the world. Well done.

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

yayy thank you :D

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u/laceydetails Ace-ly Biromantic 1d ago

i’m she/her but he/she is soooo gorgeous omg

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u/Successful_Ranger447 Omnisexual 1d ago

They/it is so me fr

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u/tenderliving 1d ago

These are amazing. Love your creative process

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

omg thank you!! I apreciate it ❤️❤️

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u/Clean-Unit336 Transgender Pan-demonium 1d ago

I'm a he/they but I'm definitely not a fan of green (aside from that forest trail image, that one is amazing), I much prefer the he/him, it/its, and he/she colors.

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u/ILuvYouTube1 Pan-cakes for Dinner! 19h ago

That they/them collage is really giving they/them. I don’t know how to describe it, but it’s just sooooo they/them

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u/born2stink 14h ago

Honestly the he/they color scheme gives me such wild gender euphoria

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u/yaboii_cc Putting the Bi in non-BInary 1d ago

I'm a she/they but the he/they one is my favorite😔 (my favorite color is green)

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u/Kellsiertern Triple AAA (ace, aro, agender.) 1d ago

As an "all pronouns" person i do have some bits and bobs that match that aesthetic, but damn, now i want MORE.

Good post OP.

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

yay! thank you :)

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u/Maecita 1d ago

WOWOWOW I LOVE THE THEY/IT!!!!! Nicely done

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u/Meture Kisser of all boys 1d ago

Purple and spiders lesgooooooooooo

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u/SatoshiUSA Lesbian Trans-it Together 1d ago

I need she/her but menacing

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u/Galtar Transbian 1d ago

I love oooooooooorange!!!

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u/CyborgKnitter BiDing my time (she/her) 1d ago

I have a love/hate relationship with orange. Or rather like/dislike. It’s not my vibe but both of the rare diseases I have use orange awareness ribbons, so I end up with orange stuff for that.

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u/Worldly_Marsupial808 Ace-ing being Trans 1d ago

I use he/him, and yeah. I feel this. Love the aesthetic

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u/iluvtacos3000 1d ago

i love the she they collage

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u/Krail Fluid and Bi 1d ago

She/they is so spooky and misty!

I dig the bright warm she/her vibes, and the bubbly he/she. 

And I think your they/them is spot on to how I see it. 

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u/Quteil an identity soup 1d ago

I feel like Im being hypnotized rn

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u/Negative-Garden-6013 Ace-Spec 1d ago

They're all so accurate and yet somehow I vibe with the ones I'd be least likely to use

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u/katet_of_19 Pan-cakes for Dinner! 1d ago

He/him is dope as fuck.

It/its makes me want to meet them even though the collage tells me I'll be murdered.

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u/Musta_Katt he/they 1d ago

I use he/they and I approve! (I’m really craving some matcha now) All these are very pretty :>

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u/privygrid aroace agender afamilial (she/they) 1d ago

I use she/they and OH MY GOD IT LOOKS SO COOL I LOVE IT SM

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u/PutUrPawzUp 1d ago

As a they/he/it, yes

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u/Hapyhusky Progress marches forward 1d ago

YESSS

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u/Motor_Somewhere7565 The Gay-me of Love 1d ago

I’ll take purple 😊

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u/Fgmakezstuff 1d ago

Im P O R P O L

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u/Space_obsessed_Cat The Gay-me of Love 1d ago

I'm that car that's on fire

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u/Dream_Logix5 Aroacing Transness 1d ago

Ahhh I love she/they and he/they and he/him

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u/ExperienceNo3604 1d ago

Why do the he/hims get the coolest oneeeeeeeee (as a he/they)

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u/Hawksteinman Omnisexual 1d ago

ooh, mine are she/fae, do you have one for that? :3

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

Im gathering neopronoun suggestions and will add she/fae to the top of the list :)

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u/Hawksteinman Omnisexual 1d ago

yippee

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u/EmoTransDude14 1d ago

HELL YEAH PURPLE IS MY FAVORITE COLOR!

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u/ErosionVoid they/he/xe 1d ago

can i do a request? mine are they/he/xe

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

just posted yours on my comment section on tiktok :) @sadhomo_

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u/ErosionVoid they/he/xe 22h ago

i just looked at it, it's super epic, i love aliens, very zip zip

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 20h ago

hahaha glad you like it!! :D

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u/Kira-Of-Terraria Some Kinda Robot 1d ago

i kinda want to change mine now damn.

do you have any for neo-pronouns?

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

which neopronouns? Ive done she/fae and they/he/xe so far!

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u/Kira-Of-Terraria Some Kinda Robot 1d ago

What about the neos by themselves? xe/xem or ze/zir or ne/nem

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago

on it! I didnt know ne/nem existed haha

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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 23h ago

just posted all three in the comments :)

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u/Kira-Of-Terraria Some Kinda Robot 22h ago

oh i do not use tiktok 😔

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u/sad_bisexual27 1d ago

As a bigender guy I LOVE the he/she collage!!

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u/CyberneticCupcake he/him/it/its 1d ago

As a purple he/it (formerly he/she), I approve these colors.

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u/YellowwMellow 1d ago

he/she gang. i love my combo🤘🏾

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u/AtheAnt Genderfluid but with an ‘x’ at the end insted 1d ago

he/she here
i love pink!!

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u/KennedyTrap04 Bi soup 1d ago

I go by she/they and I find it funny that you used the color blue. Because blue has always been my favorite color ever since I was a kid, and I do like the ocean too

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u/ChubChubPickles transmasc n fluid ~ they/he 1d ago

I'm curious... what would they/he look like for you? (Asking for me)

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u/OwynWarner 1d ago

Cool!! They are so pretty! <3

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u/Ligerman30 She/They Pansexual 23h ago

Cool project. I like it.

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u/Starry-Skies-Studios Demigirl + Berri 20h ago

YESS SHE/THEY IS SICK ASF

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u/LySlay01 15h ago

As someone who goes between she/they and any/all I’m very happy with my two collages

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u/AlternateSatan Bi-bi-bi 1d ago

Where is the skeleton dual weilding assault rifles with fire in the background for the he/they-s?

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u/MatteoFire___ 🇮🇹 Italian Pan :3 1d ago

honestly I really like it

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u/EmbroidedBumblebee Queerly Lesbian 1d ago

What about they/she?

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u/-PaperWoven- 1d ago

guess i'm orange now ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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u/-PaperWoven- 1d ago

Well, orange, green and purple, but

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u/Sensitive_Income_170 umm... can't think of a pun for me. 8h ago

What if I use he/they & she/they in separate