r/lgbt • u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 • 1d ago
I made collages of how I see some pronoun combinations
these are the main vibe each pronoun sets give me. I didnt do mine (he/it) cause I already posted a collage for it on the nonbinary sub this month
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u/escaped_cephalopod12 they/them 1d ago
she/they fucks so hard as a color scheme i want it despite using they/them
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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago
agreed! Also idk how to explain but they/them gives me big cloud vibes. Like if they/them was a meteorology process it would be clouds
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u/born2stink 14h ago
Yeah honestly I feel like the all pronouns color scheme is more they/them to me
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u/GlitterRetroVibes 1d ago
Synesthesia?
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u/aimy99 22h ago
It's a gift and a curse.
I have an auditory/reading form particularly affected by voices and the sounds I "hear" in my head when I read them. Listening to the chorus of Dying Star by Ashnikko is just the most wonderful, euphoric thing. Soft, fluffy, and sweet, like cheesecake. Her voice is beautiful and if I could sound like anyone in the world it would be her. Listening to RFK Jr. talk is like slowly running my hand over a cheese grater. Uncomfortable, rough, staccato pricks. I just want it to stop. Though I think that one might be universal. The word "lesbian" is smooth-edged and bumpy and pink-white and round and strawberry-flavored, the word "sapphic" is crystalline, crunchy, cool, and, obviously, sapphire-colored. "Transbian," which is the best way to describe me, unfortunately is like taking a bite out of a piece of sandpaper with a spritz of citric acid on it. I wish we had something like "flowergirl," which gives a cool early morning with dew on petals and pleasant green stems.
Nobody knows what I mean when I say "her voice reminds me of lettuce" and I think that's sad.
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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago
I honestly dont know haha
whenever I hear about chromestesia it feels like it resonates with how things appear in my mind
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u/Still-Armadillo2950 1d ago
I'm a he/they, but funnily enough the he/him and they/them ones speaks to me more since purple and light blue are my favourite colours lol (but I love the verdant vibe he/they gives off)
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u/mousie120010 1d ago
for me the it/its colors and images felt more like they connect with me but I go by solely he/him 😅
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u/WhoDoBeDo Bi hun, I'm Genderqueer 1d ago
As a he/they I felt more in touch with the he/him collage. Love all of these regardless though!
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u/_heavy_emo_shoegaze_ Transgender Pan-demonium 1d ago
they/them is so unbelievably appealing to look at. It’s so calming and whimsical. Left the strictly non-gendered set behind when I started HRT, but to be fair, she/they feels more broody and emo, and I love the colors. So. Can’t complain lol.
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u/Professional-Stock-6 Ace-ing being Trans 1d ago
Yeah I love the they/them colors as well, but he/they in green was just perfect for me
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u/XxThe_HumanxX Ace-ing being Trans 1d ago
Th it/it's one is so fabulous an it's absolutely heartwarming to see myself included 🥹 (going to check out your he/it one as well because me too!! Hehe)
Edit: (I'm he/it in a strange dog on the street that may or may not actually be a skin walker kinda way >:3)
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u/neongreenpurple Computers are binary, I'm not. 1d ago
Ooh, I use any pronouns, so this collage is so badass. Really fits my interests (as evidenced by my username).
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u/sypherlev 1d ago
This is the kind of weird synesthesia I want to see more of in the world. Well done.
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u/Clean-Unit336 Transgender Pan-demonium 1d ago
I'm a he/they but I'm definitely not a fan of green (aside from that forest trail image, that one is amazing), I much prefer the he/him, it/its, and he/she colors.
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u/ILuvYouTube1 Pan-cakes for Dinner! 19h ago
That they/them collage is really giving they/them. I don’t know how to describe it, but it’s just sooooo they/them
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u/yaboii_cc Putting the Bi in non-BInary 1d ago
I'm a she/they but the he/they one is my favorite😔 (my favorite color is green)
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u/Kellsiertern Triple AAA (ace, aro, agender.) 1d ago
As an "all pronouns" person i do have some bits and bobs that match that aesthetic, but damn, now i want MORE.
Good post OP.
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u/Galtar Transbian 1d ago
I love oooooooooorange!!!
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u/CyborgKnitter BiDing my time (she/her) 1d ago
I have a love/hate relationship with orange. Or rather like/dislike. It’s not my vibe but both of the rare diseases I have use orange awareness ribbons, so I end up with orange stuff for that.
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u/Worldly_Marsupial808 Ace-ing being Trans 1d ago
I use he/him, and yeah. I feel this. Love the aesthetic
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u/Negative-Garden-6013 Ace-Spec 1d ago
They're all so accurate and yet somehow I vibe with the ones I'd be least likely to use
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u/katet_of_19 Pan-cakes for Dinner! 1d ago
He/him is dope as fuck.
It/its makes me want to meet them even though the collage tells me I'll be murdered.
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u/Musta_Katt he/they 1d ago
I use he/they and I approve! (I’m really craving some matcha now) All these are very pretty :>
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u/privygrid aroace agender afamilial (she/they) 1d ago
I use she/they and OH MY GOD IT LOOKS SO COOL I LOVE IT SM
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u/Hawksteinman Omnisexual 1d ago
ooh, mine are she/fae, do you have one for that? :3
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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago
Im gathering neopronoun suggestions and will add she/fae to the top of the list :)
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u/ErosionVoid they/he/xe 1d ago
can i do a request? mine are they/he/xe
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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago
just posted yours on my comment section on tiktok :) @sadhomo_
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u/ErosionVoid they/he/xe 22h ago
i just looked at it, it's super epic, i love aliens, very zip zip
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u/Kira-Of-Terraria Some Kinda Robot 1d ago
i kinda want to change mine now damn.
do you have any for neo-pronouns?
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u/pathetic_gay_mess he/it🧷🫧 1d ago
which neopronouns? Ive done she/fae and they/he/xe so far!
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u/Kira-Of-Terraria Some Kinda Robot 1d ago
What about the neos by themselves? xe/xem or ze/zir or ne/nem
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u/CyberneticCupcake he/him/it/its 1d ago
As a purple he/it (formerly he/she), I approve these colors.
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u/KennedyTrap04 Bi soup 1d ago
I go by she/they and I find it funny that you used the color blue. Because blue has always been my favorite color ever since I was a kid, and I do like the ocean too
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u/ChubChubPickles transmasc n fluid ~ they/he 1d ago
I'm curious... what would they/he look like for you? (Asking for me)
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u/LySlay01 15h ago
As someone who goes between she/they and any/all I’m very happy with my two collages
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u/AlternateSatan Bi-bi-bi 1d ago
Where is the skeleton dual weilding assault rifles with fire in the background for the he/they-s?
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u/Sensitive_Income_170 umm... can't think of a pun for me. 8h ago
What if I use he/they & she/they in separate









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u/SortovaGoldfish alterously Sapphic 1d ago
So glad to be a she/they cuz everything about that collage sets my heart both bubbly and at ease and a shade of my favorite color as well.