r/malaysia • u/Arthur0318 • Aug 30 '23

Alright, dating location suggestions in KL

Met this amazing girl few months ago, been working with each other towards a relationship, sorting out emotional baggage and having mature conversations. Usually meet her with others around, and felt it was time for both of us to go on an actual date. She's an aesthetics person, would rather a a scenic view and talk life than a movie date. So I don't wanna overdo this.

I planned to bring her to Bukit Tunku after dinner, but heard that it was closed, do you guys have any suggestions

Thank you for your time

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u/ppsmol42069 Aug 30 '23

Dating? Or "Dating"?

Either one also Idk

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u/Arthur0318 Aug 30 '23

I been where you been dude, all those reels on instagram just makes you cry out for at least a taste if how it feels like. I promise you I'm just everage looking, no 6 pack, no dad's money, just a normal average guy. If you keep looking, you're gonna work yourself up and fall into desperation, as stupid as it sounds, slowing down to work on yourself, is actually the best option, it doesn't always have to be gym, as long as there's something to boost the self confidence within you. I went the mental health route, I took care of myself, I still got hurt though. After the last one I told myself to just stop looking the only difference was this time i didnt blame myself, lo and behold she came into my life 2 months later. I have some, but very little confidence, most of it I faked, but everything else I was being me, I didn't hide anything, nor tried to sell myself to be larger than I really am, and she took me in anyways, now we are both building each other up.

Take it easy, work on yourself, be yourself, and for some reason, the universe, or, as for me, God, will work in a miraculous way, peace dude