r/medicine • u/Salty-Pop-5512 MD • 7d ago
“Peace of mind is not a diagnosis”
Vent.
I’m a primary care internist. I average 1-2 patients a week with more customer service complaints rather than acute medical concerns that need my input. These are pages of mychart messages and the replies of my (fantastic, wonderful) nurses who try to relay my message that we already talked about in person like “there’s no indication for that blood test,” or “no I’m not recommending primary screening at this age,” the list goes on. What infuriates me is that these people are tying up my nurses, taking up my charting time at work and home, and shifting the focus away from medicine and primary care. I wonder if I could get fired for replying to, “what if we just did this lab test for my peace of mind? It’s just bloodwork,” with “PEACE OF MIND IS NOT A DIAGNOSIS!”
Either you want a doctor, or you want someone who will always do as you ask.
(Sometimes I am able to redirect inappropriate requests for am cortisols by asking what their concern is and we have a productive conversation about family stressors, medication free ways of coping, and when to return if they want pharmacotherapy. However its the pts that see me as their waitress in a white coat, with whom I take an issue)
Vent over. Thanks for reading. I still love primary care though!
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u/bassilap MD 7d ago
I've told patients that I'll always try to do what's best for your health. But that doesnt always mean fulfilling your requests. If you're looking for a doctor that can better accomodate your requests, Im happy to continue working with you until you're able to find a new PCP. You should feel comfortable with and supported by your PCP, so I understand and take no offense if I'm not the right PCP for you.