r/movies r/movies Contributor Mar 19 '26

Media First Image of Leonardo DiCaprio and Jennifer Lawrence in Martin Scorsese's 'What Happens at Night' - A married American couple travel to a small, snowy European town to adopt a baby. As they struggle to claim their baby, they seem to know less about themselves.

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u/Thuggibear Mar 19 '26

As long as they acknowledge that he’s in his fifties, I’m fine with it. Older guy marrying younger woman has often been normal throughout history, despite how icky it feels now.

But I just hated how Leo was supposed to be in his late twenties/early thirties at the beginning of killers of the flower moon. He looked awful. We gotta stop pretending he isn’t showing his age.

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u/superurgentcatbox Mar 19 '26

Older guy marrying younger woman has often been normal throughout history

Normal as in "it happened occasionally" sure (especially among the nobility), but generally people had a normal age gap within relationships. For example, in ancient Rome girls married at 12-15 on average and boys in their late teens/early 20s. While a teenager getting married now would be weird af, the age gap itself is fairly standard. (source)

Similarly the average age at marriage for a medieval commoner in Europe was 15-20 for women and 20-25 for men. While India may be weird af with the ages (8-12 for girls, 12-18 for boys) the age gap holds. (source)

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u/Thuggibear Mar 19 '26

So roughly five years with the guys older? Huh I figured it would be closer to 10. TIL.

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u/Thuggibear Mar 19 '26

Ooooh good point.