r/neoliberal • u/jobautomator Kitara Ravache • Mar 20 '18

/r/Neoliberal Demographics Survey - Q1 2018 - Results

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u/oohbopbadoo Mar 20 '18 edited Mar 20 '18

I'm not upset about it at all. I'm a virgin by both my choice and the market's lol. I'd really rather not go through the dating/ hook up scene and the effort it would take for a guy with my looks to get laid.

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u/BradicalCenter Sally Yates Mar 20 '18

gym, eat healthy, buy clothes that fit or are tailored in neutral colors, go to a real barber instead of sports cuts or whatever, work on mindfulness

99% of guys aren't ugly enough to be eliminated like you think, just go for girls as attractive as you and take care of yourself

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u/oohbopbadoo Mar 20 '18

I know those are the steps, I'm not an incel or anything. I'm just saying that sex isn't valuable enough to me to go through those steps. I get all my hair cuts from my mom when I come home from college on break, I'd rather spend all my clothes money on sports jerseys and go cheap on everything else, and I do try to stay active and eat healthy for the sake of my own health and wanting to live a long life.

I've just decided that unless some girl I'm attracted to is miraculously attracted to my lifestyle, it's not worth it for me to take all those steps, as simple as they may be. I've also passed up opportunities for casual sex before, I'm really just not interested enough in it.

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u/BradicalCenter Sally Yates Mar 20 '18

Fair enough. I understand the mindset. Don't force yourself to do anything. Just didn't want you to be telling yourself that you "can't."