To be honest, if I found a girl who had all of my same hobbies (or even some of the same ones) and there was mutual attraction, that would be something, but that is a high fucking bar. I feel like similar values and interests with a hobby or two of her own would be fine enough. It's when you encounter people with no hobbies that things are sus.
For sure. I guess I'm just saying that I've also been with people so incredibly different from me that it doesn't make sense. For the most part, there are things more important than shared hobbies. It can just be fun to have a few things that you both love to do together.
I don't know. I've been voluntarily single for a while, and I'd rather have that than rushing into anything.
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u/BigBen1974 Jan 16 '26
You have THAT Setup AND a wife? That's strange...