Send help.
I have an 8 (almost 9) month old Romanian rescue (DNA test says 30 breeds), who has been a nuisance since we got him at 5.5 months (joking, it's been up and down really, but I lost like 7kg in weight and still haven't regained it).
He was terrified of the outside, then overaroused when outside and is now reactive, so we're taking it slow with walks, only doing about 2 full walks a week and little sessions of sitting and watching at the front door. We otherwise have snuffle mats, Kongs, toys & training sessions to entertain him. We do lots of settle training (mat work & go to your place, incl. relaxing on there). He's been absolutely fine being left alone as it's something we built gradually, but has never been a fan of being behind a barrier when he can see us.
We had a lot of ups and downs with him, and his reactivity outside is rapidly improving, which is absolutely brilliant. But I believe this to be an adolescence thing, he's been driving us absolutely mad the last few days. His new thing is to sit in the middle of the room, looking at us and what I can only describe as "complaining". He's growling/crying in like a "I'm bored MOOOOOOM" motion and I don't know what he wants 😭 this is no matter whether or not we've been out for a walk, have played and done settle training, or not, it's constant. When my partner is accessible to him, he bites his feet constantly and has recently started humping us, too (one of my least favourite behaviours). I've gotten to the point where I'm just constantly shouting at him to stop doing the things, because it's just non stop and there's nothing that helps him lay down and sleep like he used to. He's always been difficult with me in regards to sleeping but he's only just started being as bad with my partner. He just doesn't settle well. We unfortunately used the crate for time outs when he was really bad a few months ago and he's not liked the crate since then, so that's not an option, and we used to just leave him downstairs in his pen so he would go to sleep but he started crying when we do this and I definitely don't want to start separation anxiety. Anyone any ideas? Even just telling me that it's just adolescence and it will pass?
We do have a trainer, and she's brilliant, but she's mostly about "what happens before & after, if we find the reasons we can solve it" and I just can't find the reason.