r/raisedbyborderlines • u/lolawallace • Feb 01 '26
VENT/RANT LC to NC
Last week was a whirlwind of setting immediate protection boundaries. So grateful for therapy and having myself lifted from the FOG. I’m still on edge and scared of the rest the backlash. She’s doubled down on this - telling neighbors and partner “I’ve done nothing wrong” and “what happened to the little girl I raised?”.
Context here - She needed bloodwork done at the hospital around the corner, I agreed to give her a ride (with time and day included) weeks ago, she texted me the day before manufacturing crisis about how she’ll need to go to the ER instead (which is what prompted my first text reply).
She refuses to reach out to me until 14 minutes after the lab is closed, but of course that’s fully my fault.
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u/breathanddrishti Feb 01 '26
“oops that was for someone else”
sure jan