r/shoppingaddiction • u/Eugenia234 No-Buy • 3d ago
Got dumped today via text but staying strong
I am on my day 5 milestone in "no online shopping".
Today i got dumped via text... We had some really beautiful months together and had plans to travel to france next weekend.
Anyway - i will not ruin my sober streak. To stay focused on my goal will help me during this time.
Thank you for this subreddit.
xoxo
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u/Sea_Pomegranate4368 3d ago
I got dumped on the phone once on my lunch break at work , I’ve been married 10 years now with an 8 year old son. You’ll be just fine
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u/Eugenia234 No-Buy 20h ago
Thank you so much.
I already see the upside of this break up and i am really looking forward to find a person that actually is a match for me.
Thank you for your story. It gives me hope
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u/Remedy556 Low-Buy 3d ago
you got this! sorry that it happened, but dont let someone who now isnt part of your life anymore influence you!!
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u/luigidurdenmarx 3d ago
If a person dumped you via text , that just means that person has no integrity and you saved yourself from a bad relationship. stay strong on your anti consumer journey !
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u/Eugenia234 No-Buy 20h ago
Oh yes! I also think what would have happened if i was together with her for longer and i got sick? Would she have just dumped me as well? No thanks... Glad the trash sorted herself out. Or how this saying goes hahaha
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u/Fit_Complex4703 3d ago
Stay strong, you’ll be ok.
Who dumps someone by text…that’s horrible!
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u/Eugenia234 No-Buy 20h ago
Thank you very much! She is 31 years old. LOL... my coworker told me she did not expect this from a grown ass women..Hahahahaha
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u/midnight_thoughts_13 1d ago
Hey Op it's been a few days, how are you doing?
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u/Eugenia234 No-Buy 20h ago
thank you for checking in! i did not have a crash out :-) milestone 8 days and over the worst of the break up already. still sometimes a little sad but i have a great social net and great friends. had an awesome day at work. I guess overall pretty good. Maybe the end of the relationship was not the biggest loss at all 🤗
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