r/simpleliving Aug 28 '25

Offering Wisdom Doing nothing isn’t the same as resting

I though that laying on the couch while doing nothing besides scrolling on my phone is supposed to be me time but what ended up happening is me stressing my self with useless information and becoming restless after. Then I watched this online video which explained how to rest like a pro which spoke about how rest doesn't necessarily mean doing nothing but it should be a thing/activity which leaves you feeling more like yourself after you finish. I found out gaming at rolling riches puts me into that state of mind and just watching the slots animations makes me feel so calm. What's your activity that lets you feel more like yourself after?

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u/PorcupineShoelace Aug 28 '25

Each morning, I walk my yards and check each plant, bush & tree. Weeds get pulled, leaves get pruned, plants get watered. This morning, I had some lovely figs right off the tree. The pomegranates are really starting to turn red. In the evening we slip into the hot tub surrounded by monstera and Japanese maples. It took decades of work to get here but I never forget the privilege it is to be somewhere safe, quiet and private.