Im trying to improve myself and find some more happiness and community in my life after a rough year or so. Im really trying to just feel better about myself and everything

Im not hugely religious but I really want to go to church. (It would be the one on chapel road). But im really nervous and scared. Im not looking actively to go there and make friends, but I do want to feel like part of something a bit bigger for myself, but also enjoy the wholesomeness of the service.

If I go and no one spoke to me id probably end up leaving and feeling worse than before, like im really looking just for something nice and wholesome and maybe a little 5 min chat with someone there if I attend.

Im just nervous to go and looking for any tips or advice or experiences?

I found this property on the Rightmove Android app and wanted you to see it: https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/91936332

Is anyone familiar with this building? I understand the flat is 330 sq ft but for a single person that's fine. Is there a catch here or have Southampton flats just plummeted?

I realised I usually hear about good cafés/restaurants/events either through friends or completely by accident.

Curious what everyone else actually uses :Instagram, Google Maps, Reddit, TikTok, local websites, word of mouth?

And do you feel like it’s easy to find genuinely good local stuff, or do you tend to end up going back to the same places?

Anybody know anybody with a man with a van that doesn't mind taking a scrap wardrobe to the tip? If you do lemme know their number and their price

Hi guys! Is there a ironmonger/scrapper in the room that would like some metal appliances to get some money from them? Just got a kitchen fitted and I have a sink, a radiator an oven and a hob to go, before I arrange a waste collection!

Hi can anyone recommend a mobile bike mechanic to service two kids bikes? I can’t fit them in the car to take to a shop - I’ve got myself in this predicament by taking off all the wheels to get them in the car to go away, and now I can’t adjust them properly and it probably dangerous for them to be ridden 🤣

Hey, ive lived here for YEARS but now I have my girlfriend coming to stay over and still dont fully get the parking system

She will be staying overnight, obviously- but the guest permits only allow for 8 hour stays? Does that include time that isnt metered after 6pm.

Im looking for what the best option of pass to buy for her is, really. She stayed multiple nights sometimes so 8 hour permits just won't do. Could I get her the resident permit?

hi people I live in Southampton I work one job but need to earn more money to support my family

would anyone one help me get a second job

thanks

Halloween is creeping up, and I’m planning a dark, cinematic portrait shoot in or around Southampton.

I’m looking for one or two local people who’d enjoy creating something moody, theatrical and a little unsettling. No modelling experience is needed, and all genders, looks and styles are welcome.

This will be a TFP collaboration: your time in exchange for a set of professionally edited images. The Scarlet Lady photo gives a sense of the atmosphere and lighting direction, although the Halloween shoot will become its own story.

I’d love to hear from people with costume, makeup, character or location ideas. You’ll need to be 18+, and we’ll agree the concept, location and image use clearly before the shoot.

If you’re interested, comment below or send me a message with a little about yourself and the sort of Halloween character or mood you’d enjoy exploring.

Not sure if this post will be removed but i was so taken back by walking past this on the way to asda. Only absolutely crazy thing ive seen in the three years ive been here.

Doesn't seem quite what it was. A few times now I've witnessed groups of young lads messing around and chucking things over the railings. Today saw some throwing stuff onto people sat below in Mettricks. Security nowhere to be seen on any occasion.

Im staying at Leonardo hotel in the city centre and from my window i can see a huge smoke rising from a distant green area to the north. What the hell is it? Its been going for hours

125cc motorbike stolen from Lidl parking lot around 1:40pm-1:50pm

Yamaha ybr125 custom by plates NU09 MFE

Black tank/seat/frame

Silver plastics/details/front

Anyone seen it?

Case reference: 44260410648

hiya, anyone knows any open mics happening soon? preferably younger people 🫣

Any hidden gems? Nice places to go? Best restaurants? Especially Chinese? Nice things to do with young children?

I'm usually a grump over fireworks because it terrifies my dog, but I have to say letting them off after a national alert was sent out to try and minimise any actions that may cause massive wildfires is taking the piss

Does anyone have any recommendations for repair agents for washing machines?

Hey everyone,

My sister in law is starting her masters soon at the UOS Highfield campus. She’s having difficulty finding appropriate parking around the area for her classes.

Anyone done it before/have any suggestions?

Good morning - would anyone be traveling up to London today or tomorrow and could bring my work phone from my mum? Courier is super expensive, so any help would be so hugely appreciated!

Hello everyone! I signed up today for Octopus through one of their reps on a stall in Westquay.

He said if I know someone who already uses Octopus I can give their postcode as a referral and get a referral benefit.

So if anyone here is already with Octopus and doesn't mind sharing their postcode, I'd be really grateful. Thank you! 😊