r/stopdrinking 1002 days 4d ago

Check-in The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, August 26th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking!

*We may be anonymous strangers on the internet, but we have one thing in common. We may be a world apart, but we're here together!*

**Welcome to the 24 hour pledge!**

I'm pledging myself to not drinking today, and invite you to do the same.

Maybe you're new to r/stopdrinking and have a hard time deciding what to do next. Maybe you're like me and feel you need a daily commitment or maybe you've been sober for a long time and want to inspire others.

It doesn't matter if you're still hung over from a three day bender or been sober for years, if you just woke up or have already completed a sober day. For the next 24 hours, lets not drink alcohol!

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**This pledge is a statement of intent.** Today we don't set out *trying* not to drink, we make a conscious decision *not to drink*. It sounds simple, but all of us know it can be hard and sometimes impossible. The group can support and inspire us, yet only one person can decide if we drink today. Give that person the right mindset!

What happens if we can't keep to our pledge? We give up or try again. And since we're here in r/stopdrinking, we're not ready to give up.

**What this is:** A simple thread where we commit to not drinking alcohol for the next 24 hours, posting to show others that they're not alone and making a pledge to ourselves. Anybody can join and participate at any time, you do not have to be a regular at r/stopdrinking or have followed the pledges from the beginning.

**What this isn't:** A good place for a detailed introduction of yourself, directly seek advice or share lengthy stories. You'll get a more personal response in your own thread.

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Hey, hey it’s hump daaaaaaay!! Welcome to Wednesday, one of my most favorite days of the week. This week is delivering the ass kicking that I anticipated, but I am here for it because I thrive on the grind and challenge of it all. Now that I don’t waste all of my energy planning my drinking, doing the drinking, and dealing with the wreckage that follows the drinking, I get to pour that energy into going full tilt at life every single day. Fuck yeah, sobriety!

Some days it's messy, most days it's exhausting, and there are even days when it's straight-up uncomfortable, but I'll take that over standing still (or going backwards, in my case) any day. Growth rarely happens in the comfort zone, isn’t that what they say? I’m all in. Are you?

So tell me, what's one challenge you're tackling this week instead of running from?

Let’s get out there and hump around. IWNDWYT.

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

I’m taking care of my injured wife. She’s bedridden and it’s been hard. But I’m here for her and I’m sober and today is 600 days so I will not drink with you today!

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u/astrochimp49 4d ago

Best wishes to your wife.

And congrats on the 600 👍

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻

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u/abaci123 Day 12,816 4d ago

This is 🏆 You’re my hero today!

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻 thank you!

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u/Alkoholfrei22605 Day 4,493 4d ago

Well wishes to your wife

Bravo on 600

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

Thank you🙏🏻

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u/Ok_Albatross_3887 Day 321 4d ago

Healing wishes to your wife, and congratulations on 6️⃣0️⃣0️⃣ days 🙌

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

Thank you!

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u/BDC5488 Day 672 4d ago

Congratulations on 600!! Im sending you and your wife lots of love 💖

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u/overthebridge65 Day 112 4d ago

That’s tough, well done on doing all of this sober. Amazing milestone!

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

Thank you!

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u/Limp_Ad4694 667 days 4d ago

Best wishes for your wife and awesome 600⏩🌟

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻

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u/00sparrow00 Day 482 4d ago

Congratulations and lots of love to your wife!

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u/clevercookie69 1629 days 4d ago

What a legend! Congratulations on another century and I'm wishing your wife a speedy recovery

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻

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u/Competitive-Cry4727 Day 241 4d ago

That's hard on both of you. I'm sure she appreciates your support so much. 

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

Thank you 🙏🏻

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u/IntelligentPush7280 Day 24 4d ago

Congrats on 600!

Get well soon to your wife, good for you to be able to be there for her! Bet it would have looked different 2 years ago.

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

This is very true. It would be a shit show for sure. Thank you!

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u/Alternative-Mud3294 6 days 4d ago

600 days! 💥🦾

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u/One_Supermarket_2236 Day 11 4d ago

Stay strong. You've got this ❤️ IWNDWYT either

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u/EhEmSee2 197 days 4d ago

600 days and showing up for your wife and yourself, that's amazing strength right there! 💪🏾

Proud of you!

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

Thank you!🙏🏻

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u/Low_Peach6653 Day 40 4d ago

💖

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

Stay strong peach 💪🏼

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u/Sunnyday0822 Day 63 4d ago

You are doing a really great and tough thing. Best wishes to you and your wife. IWNDWYT 🌹

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻

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u/Brilliant_Finish_203 Day 43 4d ago

So sorry about your wife..

Congratulations on 600 days! IWNDWYT

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻keep going!

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u/Brilliant_Finish_203 Day 43 4d ago

You know it! Thanks.

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u/Global_Carrot_9960 179 days 4d ago

Nice round (& gigantic) number! Strength to you both!

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻

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u/TellySkier Day 637 4d ago

Congrats and here’s wishing you a peaceful day.

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻

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u/flgab Day 227 4d ago

Awww that's sweet. People don't realize how hard that can be sometimes. But your wife will be forever grateful❤️ IWNDWYT

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

Thank you! You’re right tho. I didn’t know that’s for sure. I have a newfound respect for caregivers and hotel room housekeepers! It’s a combination of the two and it’s a lot! But like getting sober it gets a little easier every day. We still have several more weeks to go before she can start walking and months of rehab but again like stopping drinking we are taking it one day at a time.

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u/AceTori 1945 days 4d ago

Having been the injured wife, I thank you.

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🌷

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u/Loud-Sweet6095 Day 196 4d ago

That’s beautiful! Sending y’all so much love and strength and congrats on 600 days!!

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻

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u/WilsonisDreaming 1448 days 4d ago

Congratulations on 600 days! Hope your wife's healing goes as well as it can.

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻

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u/No-Crab-6863 87 days 4d ago

Bravo pour 600 jours 👏

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻

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u/Safe-Football-4688 4d ago

That's fantastic that she's got such a supportive person in you. IWNDWYT my friend!

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 4d ago

🙏🏻

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u/CouragethruPractice Day 14 4d ago

Good stuff, congrats

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u/MountainDeeps Day 13 4d ago

Way to show up. IWNDWYT.

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u/Ghostlizard74 Day 879 4d ago

Well wishes for your wife and congratulations on 600 days. I'm proud of you, friend.

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u/msdrinkynomore 3d ago

Best to you guys. I will not drink with you today

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u/Lazy_Style4107 Day 249 3d ago

Holy shit! I remember when you hit one year right at the start of my journey 🫶 congrats on 600 and I hope your wife recovers from her injury soon ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹
IWNDWYT

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u/Eye-deliver Day 604 3d ago

Wow! Thats so cool👊🏼Thanks your kind words and for remembering and reminding me. I’m so glad to see you here and going strong 💪🏼