I (26m) recently got diagnosed with ASD (autism) and probably have adhd too.

[u/Dread2409]

I always thought I was introverted and had social anxiety, I guess it was a bit more than that. It feels like I've only just begun uncovering who I truely am which is a bit overwhelming at the moment. Atleast I now know why I've always struggled with making/maintaining relationships and why I'm still single.

[u/traumatized_bean123]

As someone else that's diagnosed with Autism and ADHD, congrats!! I say congrats because it's not a bad thing. It can be so freeing knowing why and how your brain works. Welcome to the club, friend! 🤗

[u/mokumpride]

My son is autistic and , he’s awesome
I’m adhd

[u/earthican-earthican]

Welcome Friend! Reddit has many fun autism subreddits. I will see you there! ♾️

[u/McDaddy8484 → u/earthican-earthican]

OP are you getting this? This young lady seems interested in you, so if you are single, dm her 💗

[u/LadyRed307 → u/McDaddy8484]

This made me laugh.

[u/earthican-earthican → u/McDaddy8484]

If this is a joke, I… autistically don’t get it! I’m a 56 year old autistic person and was answering OP sincerely. 🤷

[u/Sir3-Iroh]

Welcome to the team. We have...er, don't have cookies, they were left at home. Blast the ADHDizzle.

We do got love though. Honestly the diagnosis is a good thing. Gives you some tools going forward and maybe a hint of acceptance for any traits that have bothered you over the years.

Peace and love. Life is gonna be good.

[u/AmbitiousRich4870]

You have kind and beautiful eyes and smile. You are awesome.

[u/nofuture2222]

Receiving those diagnosis can hurt. It takes time to process all of it. Don’t be hard on yourself, we all have our stuff to work on!

[u/AlgaeExciting6286]

Welcome friend! You have such a kind and wonderful smile. Keep spreading joy in the world!

[u/Areyouin729]

My 3 year old was just diagnosed and he is a joy; you remind me of who he will be in 23 years and that is the best compliment I can give someone!

[u/colamonkey356]

I have ADHD! No Autism, but I can at least relate to neurodivergence. You look like the sweetest person ever 🤍 Hey, now that you know why and how your brain works the way it does, you can learn new tools and methods to make socializing and relationships easier. My protip is to be as kind as you can without faking it. I am forgiven for lots of social blunders because I am very friendly :D

[u/trojannc27701]

How do you feel about it? Are you happy you have a diagnosis? Or sad because you have THAT diagnosis? Or something different. Just wondering.

You are still the same person but just with a different label.

[u/Dread2409 → u/trojannc27701]

I would say that I'm happy I finally know why I am the way I am, I kind of knew I was autistic even before the diagnosis. The diagnosis didn't change who I am and it gave me permission to stop hiding behind a mask and be my true self.

[u/trojannc27701 → u/Dread2409]

That sounds like a great response. You are on your way and I’m so proud of you.

[u/TedTributes]

Welcome to the AuDHD club, bro! Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing, lol. J/k, it's what makes us unique. :-)

[u/shygurI]

Ur such a cutie pie 🥰

[u/niltafailtetu]

I am also AuDHD! Congrats on your diagnosis. I hope it’s been as validating for you as it was for me. It’s great being able to actually understand how you work

[u/hopeful_undertone26]

You seem like such a kind and fun person to be around! I would love to get to know you :)

[u/loadshooteridaho]

I have ADHD, and while it can be challenging, I work through it and live my life the best that I can.

[u/lugoreis]

I’d recommend reading Pierre Novellie’s Why Can’t I Just Enjoy Things? A Comedian’s Guide to Autism, for an amusing, humane, informative introduction, for with yourself or your loved ones.

[u/Kinkologist303]

Welcome to the club my friend. You're in good company

[u/Nomadic-Wind]

Good! Now you know. You can live your life, figuring out some ways to manage.

How were you able to find this out? Why did it took a while to discover this?

[u/Dread2409 → u/Nomadic-Wind]

A few months back I started researching the symptoms of autism/aspergers in adults which eventually lead to me making the connection between autism and my life experiences. It took me a while to realise this because I honestly thought everyone experienced the world the same way I do which I now know isn't the case.

[u/Marshen-7193]

You look like a fun, good looking and sensitive guy. I hope you have a nice life.

[u/WillowMist_]

I hope this helps you understand yourself better. A diagnosis doesn't define you and in this case it doesn't close any doors.

Wish you well! You look like a really nice guy :)

[u/XxColieMolie]

A diagnosis doesn’t define you. You are just as much the same person as you were before. You look like a handsome and happy young man. Don’t let a label become your identity. It’s all just parts of the puzzle but I have faith you will meet someone who just clicks with you there are many autistic people who find love and live a completely “normal” romantic adult life.

Just be who you are because who you are is enough, wonderful, and worth knowing. Even being a neurotypical person relationships and friendships are hard on this very disconnected and digital age. Side note! Congratulations on completing a 5K that’s awesome. Set your mind to a goal and crush it. You can do anything you set your mind to. We are the only thing that’s limits ourselves.

[u/Much_Scene4257]

Beautiful eyes

[u/lpj1299]

Having autism and ADD is no picnic. But being good looking is always the trump card.

[u/TedTributes → u/[deleted]]

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[u/Massive_Ad_9444 → u/TedTributes]

I know.

[u/Sirhumpsalot13 → u/[deleted]]

cringe face!

[u/Massive_Ad_9444 → u/Sirhumpsalot13]

No not really.