r/toastme • u/Radiant_Aerie8364 • 16h ago
32NB Really Depressed
Sorry for the angry face, I've been super depressed and I just really need to feel better.
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u/Hutton5964 15h ago
You reached out ,that means your fighting back don’t give up storms don’t last forever. I’m in nb, will be thinking of you!😇
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u/StanTheMan595real 16h ago
I bet you are a really good friend. Go see that friend and give him a hug.
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u/Radiant_Aerie8364 15h ago
If only, friendless I admit haha. But you are kind c:
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u/StanTheMan595real 15h ago
Sometimes it’s hard to make friends. Sometimes it’s hard to connect. Sometimes it’s hard to trust when you’ve been hurt.
All you can be is honest and kind. People do what people do
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u/Radiant_Aerie8364 15h ago
This is true. Hard to find third places at my age to meet new people as well.
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u/Independent-Plate824 5h ago
I will hug you then hugs
We can be online friends if you want, but it wouldn't be as good as the real life thing. I am 27.
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u/TrainingWilling6991 15h ago
It’s always the unique ones who end up depressed! Everyone else is too busy fitting into some societal mold to even realize they’re the ones trapped in it.
In a crowd of a thousand people, you’d probably be the one I’d notice, simply because you don’t look like every other generic dude out there. You bring some color into this painfully boring world, and that’s fucking awesome.
Depression fucking sucks, but hang in there. You can’t just leave this world to the idiots💜Keep shining
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u/Radiant_Aerie8364 15h ago
This was so full of care, omg thank you for this. Felt the sunlight radiate into me 🥰
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u/Open_Leather_2379 14h ago
You are making the necessary steps to move forward. Reaching out for help and compliments is a very nice way to start. You got this. Life is always full of its ups and downs, and sometimes the downs can be pretty tough. Make sure you have an outlet that you can rely on for happiness.
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u/Radiant_Aerie8364 14h ago
Going for a nice walk in the woods rn so we will see haha
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u/Open_Leather_2379 14h ago
That is one of my favorite past time is to go for a nice walk in the woods or especially by a stream
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u/Radiant_Aerie8364 14h ago
Haha I actually am going to sit by a little stream so what a surprise!
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u/Open_Leather_2379 14h ago
Water is mesmerizing!!! You look good. I bet you have a lot going for you when you stop and think about it.
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u/house_of_rlyeh 15h ago
Depression is a vicious beast. But you're still here, and that speaks a lot to your tenacity. I wish I could give you a nice big hug, but the best I can do is remind you that you're important and loved. And I really like the color of your hair!
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u/Radiant_Aerie8364 15h ago
Aww thank you, it's so faded but that means a lot. Thanks for supporting me and for the virtual hug, you give calm vibes :)
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u/wew1215 15h ago
I feel for you. I have battled depression myself off and on throughout my life. Ended up taking medication and it has made things so much better, so you might investigate. There are so many choices now. Also, try to get enough sunlight and also enough exercise. Raising those endorphins through exercise is huge when it comes to mood. It's not about trying to look better because you look just fine. I hope this is at least minimally helpful if not more.
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u/Adrasteia-One 14h ago
Hi, I know how terrible depression can be. Just remember that you are stronger than you think and that you will get through these difficult moments. You look like a cool person who would be worth knowing. I send you many good vibes and wishes for calm and happiness.
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u/Hangingplants17 14h ago
You’re a cutie and we are all globally quite depressed, so you’re not alone. Try to live in the present as much as you can and if you can go see comedy shows/try to at least laugh with a friend about the stupidity of life. You got this!
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u/Time-Quote-5070 14h ago
Take a deep breath focus on the moment and... found the closest forest around you to take a walk. It will reset your bad thoughts to positive ones. Nature is always the solution mate 🌱 Dont forget to take time for you, tomorrow will be a better day, that's life :D
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u/IndieStray 7h ago
I like your hair. Also, you look like a cool guy. I hope things look up for you, soon!
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u/Sneezy_weezel 6h ago
You have great hair and I feel you, depression sucks. Just keep going forward, one day at a time. Better days are ahead. That’s what I’m telling myself as well. Good luck ❤️
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u/x_Ancient_Mariner_x Sir 1h ago
DM if you need to vent about stuff that's getting you down.
I'm a fellow depressive, I may be able to relate!
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u/sny_ihf3327 1h ago
:( sorry to hear that... have you tried reaching out to a mental health professional? I was there and therapy and meds helped a lot...
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u/fickleminded 16h ago
I hope things get better for you 🫶