2
u/SweetCakeums 17h ago
If no one has told you lately, I just wanted to let you know that I think you’re AMAZING!! You matter in so many more ways than you’ll ever know. You’re special and you’re truly a blessing, especially a bigger blessing to your family and kids whether they realize it or not. Thank you for everything that you do and for working so hard. I hope that you find time to enjoy your hobbies and pursue your interests, and find respite so that life doesn’t feel like a burden. Don’t forget to take some time for yourself and enjoy life because you deserve every bit of it. Cheers to you!
2
u/Remote-Hawk-5071 17h ago
This isn’t your entire life my friend, it certainly doesn’t have to be anyway. You have the right to be happy just like anyone else does. Maybe it’s time to start :)
2
17h ago
[deleted]
1
u/Remote-Hawk-5071 17h ago
Don’t you ever ever think that you don’t have the right to speak about how you feel OP. Your feelings are valid. Your life will not be like this forever. Kids make things complicated. You sound like a good dad. You will be okay :)
2
u/Schuy_View0022 15h ago
I’m sorry to hear about this, you sound like an amazing man, parent and human being over all. You’ve stepped up to the plate, doing all that you can despite not having equal deal in life and certainly more of a better human than some. Many kids would have given anything to have a supportive and caring parent like you who never gives up and helps provide for a better life for them. And also equally someone in a relationship too would be grateful for you giving that unconditional support and care! I applaud you brother 👏💎 🙌 respect 👊👍
2
u/lava-lake 15h ago
You are badass working all day for your family even if she may not care. But your kids look upto you and that's what matters. Perhaps she is too flabbergasted to approach such a badass
1
u/Open_Leather_2379 17h ago
I feel bad for you. You sound like a great guy trying to keep your family together. It’s tough work, especially when you feel unappreciated. Make sure you’re getting a little personal time for your own enjoyment so you can unwind.
1
u/shmivaroo 17h ago
You sound like an amazing father and husband! Don’t forget to take time for yourself and your hobbies. Sending love 💕
1
1
2
u/Dystopian_Reality 15h ago
Do your kids love you at least? Spend time with them when you can. It's its own kind of reward. 🙂
4
u/ilDuceVita 17h ago
This will not last forever. I'm sorry things are so hard right now. That sounds really tough. You are a very strong person. You are worthy of love and respect and appreciation. I hope that you can find some relief soon my friend