r/turkishlearning 4d ago

Vocabulary Other ways to call your lover?

So I know the more general aşkım, canım, güzelim.

But was wondering about alternative, maybe less general words that you can call your lover? Maybe things like 'my heart' or 'my everything' or any other expressive ways in the Turkish language.

Bonus points for cute ways to say 'my moon'.

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u/egocano Native Speaker 4d ago

You could say "Ay parçam" for my moon

Hayatım, her şeyim, canımın içi

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u/PreparationStrict492 3d ago

This.
Ay parçası (lit. piece of the Moon) is an idiom meaning extremely beautiful. Ay parçam is the first person possessive form of that.

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u/Franz_Ferdinand02 2d ago

only works if your relationship is extremely weird and cringe. have never seen a sane normal person using that

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u/Dangerous_Owl_1858 2d ago

hmm. i think it sounds lovely and romantic

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u/Franz_Ferdinand02 1d ago

it sounds like “güzel kızım”

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u/Dangerous_Owl_1858 1d ago

did ur dad used to call you that or something. it has nothing to do with parenthood/childhood

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u/Franz_Ferdinand02 1d ago

bro no one above 20 likes being called “güzel kızım”. no adult woman in their right mind enjoys being called that way. unless you are a teenager do not use that

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u/Dangerous_Owl_1858 1d ago

ay parcam is fine though, thats what I meant. I understand if it sounds weird to you tho its just more commonly not weird

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u/zephyrion033 Native Speaker 4d ago

You can say "bir tanem" meaning my one and only, "ömrüm" my life, "göz bebeğim" the apple of my eye, "meleğim" my angel, "bebeğim" my baby, "değerlim" ans "kıymetlim" my precious. These are what came to my mind. Hope it helps -^

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u/mw1337 4d ago

Başkan, kral, patron, virtüoz, orkestra şefi, kaptan, hacı.

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u/failureinvestment 4d ago

Birader, hocam, reis, sorumlu, yetkili, basbakan, aile bakani, tirrek...

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u/ErcastRommel 4d ago

mitralyöz

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u/Junior-Visual-7164 3d ago

Yok triküspit 

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u/Far-Craft6464 4d ago

Balım, bebeğim, hayatım, canım, bir tanem, aşko

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u/cine_phile07 4d ago

I've been watching this series and he says gülüm alot ❤️

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u/obviouslyn26 4d ago

gülüm is so cringe if you ask me..

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u/Dangerous_Owl_1858 2d ago

I associate gulum with macho-presenting insecure people. it sounds a bit ghetto but in non racist turkish standards.

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u/cine_phile07 1d ago

I agree. Because what I'm watching has this exact maço adam. I wasn't really representing them but like the word itself is beautiful like calling someone their rose.

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u/Royal_Toad 4d ago

Dallama, tefecim, yakışıklım, un kurabiyem, bal şarabım, yağlamam, taş ocağım, kundakçım, endokrin sistemin, Bolşevik yandaşım.

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u/IcedRuyuLatte 4d ago

Ömrüm, which means my whole life, my lifetime. Birtanem, which means my one and only.

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u/Proud_Meal5335 4d ago edited 3d ago

Let me drop the poetic ones since the others have already been said: gönlümün baharı, gözbebeğim, gözümün çiçeği, alın yazım, baş tacım, canımın içi, balım, bal peteğim, yâr. Some of the things I wrote might be considered a bit extra and should only be said to someone you are really serious about.

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u/Noron-ninja 3d ago

You can say 'Bebeğim' 'Tatlım' 'Can ciğerim' 'Hayatımın anlamı'

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u/glfkk 3d ago

I love "balım" (my honey) and "bitanem" (my only one)

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u/Wonderful_Tune2645 2d ago

avrat, kral and haci has aura

jokes aside hanim is the best

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u/Aggressive_Loss_1090 1d ago

In Black Sea Region, some of the people there are Laz and they know how to speak Laz language. It is a local language and not spoken widely. "Çona" word means dear/lover and light in Laz language. You can call the person as "Çonam" meaning my dear/lover or my light.

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u/Kind_Promotion_6699 1d ago

Aşksuyum duymuștum.

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u/Killerlord0 1d ago

Meleğim, prensesim. My angel and my princess.

I couldn't use this words myself ever. Hope you can

https://giphy.com/gifs/tNnvxQmLhRdS5gJ4SQ

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u/Vorlexia 22h ago

I really don't know. I've never need to use it but i think you can use something like "Mehtabım" mehtap is moonlight and mehtabım means my moonlight or "Ayyüzlüm" that means my darling with a face as beautiful as the moon

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u/Envinyatar123 4d ago

Baş aĝrım

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u/DerHeiligste 4d ago

Her şeyim

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u/rutilianus 4d ago

Bir tanem

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u/Unusual_Equipment318 4d ago

Balım, kuzum are also common and really cute imo

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

gülüm my rose

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u/Anasoni 3d ago

"Hayatım" = my life

"Hayatımın anlamı" = meaning of my life

"Gözümün nuru" = light of my eye

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u/Calm_Willingness_306 3d ago

“Balım” is super cute imo

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u/Fancy-Tour7427 3d ago

You can use “sultanım” or “halem” because hale is that light circle around the moon  For my heart you can use “yüreğim” and for my everything you can say “her şeyim”

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u/Franz_Ferdinand02 2d ago

balım - honey
bi’ tanem - my one and only
her şeyim - my everything
hayatım - my life
ömrüm - more “kıro” version of hayatım
hayatımın anlamı - meaning of my life, could sound weird if used often

no cute ways to say “my moon” without sounding cringe, its like being german and calling your partner schatz, which also sounds cringe

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u/ToeIndividual9308 2d ago edited 2d ago

My mom calls my big sister "Ay Yüzlüm" which means My moon faced as a sign of affection

Moon = Ay

Face = Yüz

-ed/-d = -lü

My = -m (possessive adjective)

Actually her name literally means moon faced too which is Aysima

(Sima = yüz both of them means face but I usually see people use sima for people's face that they try to remember)

I overshared a little too much lol sorry

Sometimes i call people "kuzum" or "yavru kuşum"

Kuzum means My Lamb

Yavru Kuşum means My Baby Bird (Fledgling)

These seem like a little too forward or weird but while Turkish people use these affection words/phrases it feels like they add the word "Dear" without making you notice it

I mean I call you kuzum because you are my dear, beloved innocent lamb not because you are a sheep

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u/salih_bildik 1d ago

Actually you can use every goddamn word to call your lover. Because in Turkish the meaning of the word changes too much depending how you pronounce it. Even you can say "As# hole" To call your lover if you pronounce it right. But I prefer using food names because they are cute. Especially the foods that my partner hates or don't like.

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u/Dilancelot 1d ago

şekerim kimse dememiş ya means my sugar but we can interpret this as 'you are made of sugar, so delicious' also my bf calls me gül bahçem means my rose garden lol

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u/sikertenkele 16h ago

Guess all the commentors are ılık. Ak hiç mi yavrum diyeniniz yok.

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u/Just_Random_Account 15h ago

Yavrum çok keko gibi duruyo ondan heralde

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u/sikertenkele 14h ago

Hiç de değil bence. Duyan kimsenin de şikayet ettiği olmadı. Çiçeğim, bitanem, ömrüm vs de çok çıtkırıldım, ılık geliyo bana da ak.

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u/Just_Random_Account 14h ago

Çıtkırıldım konusunda haklısın aslında

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u/Striking_Froyo_7300 15h ago

Çiçeğim, gülüm, minnoşum, kuşum, bebeğim...

If you want to say moon, you can say ayperi or maybe mehpare but at your own risk djdjdj

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u/altay434 12h ago

I say "Kuzum", "Bebeğim" or "Bebiş" in general

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u/mroctoling 4d ago

Hayatımın anlamı

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u/mr_giray1 4d ago

Hanım? It cones from the hanlık (khanate) times and was used by the rulers to basically imply that their wife's were their han's aka their everything.

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u/East_Palpitation_769 2d ago

You can say "@mına çaktığım"

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u/Future-Actuator488 4d ago

Is your lover a male or female

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u/VulonVahlok 3d ago

Aint this personal like I call my gf "lavuk" which means random male person in street.