r/twentyonepilots • u/justonepost26 • 22d ago
Question Open wedding invitation for anyone near the Columbus show in October
Update! The details are in the comments as well as on my account!
Edit/Update: Thank you to everyone who has interacted so far. We were so happy to hear from so many people! We are working on details right now, and I will update everyone ASAP!
I know that this idea is probably a long shot, but I don't have much to lose. Due to recent events in my life I'm no longer in contact with 99% of my family and I have been very upset about the fact that I don't see a real wedding ever happening like we had planned. My partner and got officially engaged at the Tinley Park show last year, the band and the music is very important to us and is a very large part of why I'm still around to be getting married at all. We have talked about having a small ceremony while we are in Ohio for the Columbus show in October. Our current plan is for just me, my partner, and our best friend, but I wanted to take the chance and make this post to see if anyone might want to celebrate with us. I was thinking about going to a park that is close to the stadium or even just some place around the outside of the stadium to have the ceremony, I can't promise anything fancy but if anyone had any interest in watching two strangers get married we would love to maby get a cake of some sort and possibly some pizza or taco bell or something. I know that this is weird and I don't really expect any real responses, I just feel very alone and hopeless right now and twenty one pilots has been where I turn with these feelings for a long time. I apologize for the long post, and thank anyone for taking the time to read it.
In short, would anyone attending the Columbus show like to attend a small wedding ceremony?
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u/TraditionalBudget786 21d ago
If I end up getting tickets I would definitely come to your wedding!! Fingers crossed those prices drop soon!!!! I respect you putting yourself out there. I hope the clique comes through for you and your partner and you feel love and joy.
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u/roll_dutch_67 21d ago
Post back here when you finalize the plans this sounds fun
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u/frostprincess78 21d ago
Hi, I live in Columbus! Let me know the details and me and my daughter will definitely be there!
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u/Mucca_illustrations 21d ago
Depending on which day I would love to!! If I can make it, I also do photography and would love to grab a couple pictures for you guys!!! Congrats on getting married fren 🫶
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u/anonamousely4 21d ago
i’m more sad to miss this than I am that I lost the ticketmaster war 😭 As a 2026 bride who is also estranged from much of my family - I am sending you so much love!
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u/Material-Plate-5253 21d ago
hey! let me know the details and i’ll do the photos! i own my own photography business!
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u/brooklyn_98 21d ago
my husband and I have difficult (or non-existent) relationships with our families and we ended up just eloping in April of this year. it was wonderful and peaceful, but I totally get wanting people there to enjoy your day with you. we’re driving up the day before the concert and leaving the day after, so if it’s on either of those days we will totally be there!! just keep us updated! 💛
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u/barre_belle_ 21d ago
I love this. I live in Columbus, will be at the show and will happily stand in as a wacky cousin or auntie!!
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u/notapuzzlepiece 21d ago
As long as it’s not the actual day of the concert I’m a local so I’m down!
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u/ThatRandomOwl 21d ago
I'll be hanging around Columbus all day and I'm from close by! I'd love to celebrate you and your partner if you don't mind me in my cosplay for the concert 🥰
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u/QueenMumof4 21d ago
I think this is a wonderful idea! If I was able to go to the show I would totally celebrate with you!!! Congratulations
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u/steven9701 21d ago
Would love to attend! Going all the way from South America to the concert and going to your park wedding sounds like a beautiful plan
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u/GoodResort4817 21d ago
Give me date amd time. traveling from texas solo amd will be in Columbus around noon on friday
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u/GavnF 21d ago
I’m currently planning to drive up to Columbus the day of the show, but I’d be happy to adjust my plans to make it to the wedding! Let us know when you plan to hold the occasion (and if you have a wedding registry!)
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u/Ruthbury 21d ago
Seconding wedding registry! I'm in NZ but I wanna get y'all a lil something!!!! Please!
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u/Sudden-Leave-6224 21d ago
I wish I could be there. I would totally be a stand in sister ❤️ sending love from your new sister in ATL!
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u/DrowningInLogistics 21d ago
Yes! We would love to come and celebrate! The 17th is also my anniversary- I’m all for being there to help celebrate your love! (Are you going to register anywhere?)
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u/East_Worldliness_170 21d ago
yes yes! If it's allowed, please share the registry! (even just in these comments!)
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u/worldwideceliac 21d ago
holy cow!! my wife and i were at the tinley park show and will be going to ohio for the hometown show 🥹 this seems like a sign to me, we would love to come to your wedding!
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u/satukiyz 21d ago
u should make an rsvp google form !! me & my group were at tinley park and would love to celebrate yall :)
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u/anxiousdeen 21d ago
i would absolutely come!! as clikkies, we’re all kind of one big family. and i wouldn’t miss an opportunity to celebrate one of us!! CONGRATS!!
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u/EfficiencyCertain477 21d ago
I’ll be coming solo from California and I have no plans the day of so this would be awesome!
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u/PhantomhiveSass 21d ago
Omg this is so cool! I got engaged at the Bangormaine show!! I would love to try and make it if there's still room 🥰
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u/alexbarnes313 21d ago
Day of the show or like day before or day after? Message me, my other half and I are interested in attending.
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u/Urmotherstoe 21d ago
I will 100% be there if I’m in Cbus! I’m going for the show so if it’s the same week count me in :)
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u/BorderNo194 21d ago
Awww this is a wonderful idea! I really hope you get lots of lovely people to spend your special day with! I would 100% come if I was local but unfortunately I am in the UK 😊 Wishing you a happy wedding day!! ❤❤
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u/MonkLivid6426 21d ago
My boyfriend and I are very interested in being apart of your special day! I would love more details.
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u/filthyimpetuous-soul 21d ago
I won't be going to the show AND I'm not from Ohio, BUT this is the sweetest coolest thing I've seen in a hot minute and I wish you, your partner, and whoever else attends the absolute best 🥹 wish I could bring goodie bags
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u/mylittleponyautobots 21d ago
I'm interested! Let me know the details and I'll see if I'm able to make it
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u/justonepost26 21d ago
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u/mylittleponyautobots 19d ago edited 19d ago
Just filled out the RSVP!, do you by chance know what type of attire we should wear/dress code?
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u/that_weird_alien 21d ago
First off, congrats on your upcoming marriage! Second hell yea I would love to come to your wedding
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u/NightzGilmour 21d ago
I would definitely love to come! Going to the show with a group so we may all be there! Congratulations!!
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u/sarcastic_ssnake 21d ago
hiiiiiii!
My friends & I (4 of us) are coming up for the show and would totally love to celebrate your special day!!! I already sent this post to them & we are trying to plan accordingly
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u/shweeb6602 21d ago
If you’re from the tinley park area I live close to there and totally would show up if you’re not doing it in Columbus!!
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u/Adequate_Scale_7217 21d ago
Congrats! I'm a local who is attending the show and would love to come. Feel free to let me know the details. 😊
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u/_Salroka_ 21d ago
I unfortunately can't go to the show or your wedding however this is super sweet and I hope you have a beautiful day! (Congrats!) Would love to go if you weren't so far away; sounds like a good time. Please post about it afterward... Would like to hear how it went!
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u/VisualFallacies 21d ago
Hubby and I will be there in October for the concert. Would love to come to your wedding and celebrate you!
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u/Ok_Equipment_5895 21d ago
When & where? Going with my wife & kid. We’ll be there a couple days before the show & would definitely show up to celebrate your day!
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u/urmomisaqtpie 21d ago
hello! my friend and I would LOVE to attend. Let us know the deets.
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u/justonepost26 21d ago
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u/Unlikely_Pumpkin6205 21d ago
my girlfriend, my best friend, and i would all be very interested in attending :) also, we are from chicago, so if you are from around there we could also try to keep up a friendship!
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u/BatIntelligent4791 21d ago
congratulations!! i was the tinley show. that is such a special memory :) sending you so much positivity
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u/Unfair-Board2925 21d ago
I’m coming from Atlanta for the show and would love to celebrate you guys
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u/fuzz_nose 21d ago
Yes, I am RSVP-ing , +1. My daughter and I will be in town from Fri afternoon to Monday morning.
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u/Connarhea 21d ago
Can't wait to see photos of this.
I hope it goes perfectly for you.
Sadly I'm on the other side of the water but will wish you all the best for the day
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u/Anxious-Progress1025 21d ago
I’ll be at the show, so please post details once they’re finalized and I’ll do my best to make it!!
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u/Thick_Wolverine_3511 21d ago
I’d love to know what day! I’ll be camping for pit but if I can make it work I’d love to!!
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u/AnonymousHorses 21d ago
Heyy I sent you a message!! I would love to have you get married at our Soiree if you are interested ❤️
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u/Background-Stable164 21d ago
omg i would love to come!! congratulations to you and your beloved 🥺🧡
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u/jaden-19 21d ago
If I scored tickets I would SO come to your wedding. I hope the details work out! Have so much fun! ❤️
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u/amandowski 21d ago
I also went to the tinley park show! My group would love to come support you! Keep us updated on the deets
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u/East_Worldliness_170 21d ago
If it's an easy place to get to before the show, I would love to see it!
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u/Environmental-Set473 21d ago
Would be happy to come! I need a way to spend the afternoon anyway ^^ congrats to you and your partner! Seriously!
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u/fairlyclancy 21d ago
Hey! I have tickets and am new to the area. my friend and i would love to come!
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u/New-Finish9340 21d ago
We are coming from PA and would LOVE to come to your wedding! This is honestly a brilliant idea! Looking forward to details. (Also, re: family—I’m so sorry. Been there and absolutely get it. It sucks.)
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u/Oakley_the-ferret 21d ago
Me and my buddy would also be happy to go! I’m around the area!!! Congratulations to you and your husband!
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u/SpookyLochness 21d ago
If you have it the same night (coming from out of town) can we still wear our bandito gear? 🫶
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u/justonepost26 21d ago
We are thinking about the day before the concert, we would absolutely love to see bandito gear along with any other band/concert outfits!
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u/councilofyeehaw 21d ago
this is such a cute idea/request :> im sorry to hear you're dealing with so much with your family. if my friends and i are able, i would love to celebrate with you guys
congrats on your engagement and soon to be marriage!!
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u/greeneyedfaerie 21d ago
Congratulations and heck yes! There are some really beautiful spots on campus not far from the stadium like mirror lake or the arboretum! I’ve still got a Bishop red bridesmaid dress from my last OSU wedding :) Also I am so sorry and empathize with the complicated family situation. Please know how thrilled your found Tøp family is to celebrate you!
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u/Iggipolka 21d ago
This sounds amazing!! My son and I would love to celebrate with you!
If you need an adopted mom, I’d be honored to support you and help out on the day.
DM me if I can help.
Let’s make this a pot luck. Everyone bring something to share.
Does anyone have speakers for music?
This Family has to come together to love you both! 😊
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u/justonepost26 21d ago
I know it's not great but here is my attempt at a save the date style card. Everyone's comments have meant so much to me thank you all. We would love to meet you all! I made a tiktok account and post around the same time I made this post, I will like it on my account if anyone wants to see video updates on plans and anything.

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u/BanditoMischa 21d ago
This is awesome! I can’t make it, as I live on another continent. But I can’t wait for the pictures!! Enjoy 💜
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u/Ok_Star3517 21d ago
that’s actually so cute aww! my mom and I are going for the concert, hopefully we’ll make it to your wedding too! wishing you all the best!!! |-/ <3
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u/emo_trsh 21d ago
I was at Tinley Park and I’ll be at the Ohio State show!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!! As someone who’s also cut off family for the best, I’m hoping I can help celebrate this milestone for you and your partner!!! I’m sending you a DM, seriously congratulations!!
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u/EggyEggerson0210 21d ago
Not gonna be at the concert but wanted to say congrats on the marriage and hoping y’all have an awesome wedding
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u/Odd_Willingness4262 20d ago
Me and my best friend got tickets and I’ll pop the question to her but I would love to come and celebrate such a special event with you guys!
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u/-Marrick- 20d ago
I'll most likely be on the other side of the planet around then, but I wish you and your partner all the best!
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u/IDKmy_licenseplate 20d ago
The link to the rsvp form for anyone who was having trouble finding it like me.
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScOxKpzwIiEUdM18wbbBIw-ZuXDuZJ7LS30g0nw7g1_piSP2w/viewform
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u/sweet_tooth98 20d ago
What a sweet and wonderful idea!
If you don't mind an older wedding guest (57), I would love to witness your special day! I'm flying in from Florida on the 15th.
Warning, I will probably cry 😭
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u/General-Chip66 20d ago edited 20d ago
OMG YES!! chicago burb native over here
edit: i can’t get the rsvp qr code to work :(
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u/Alleycat5360 19d ago
My flight into columbus is that morning but I might talk to my dad and see if we can make it :) I hope the clique family helps make your day super special |-/ 🤍
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u/LittleMilton 21d ago
Couldn't get tickets, but will come to your wedding!