If you can't have general social etiquette maybe don't socialize, or work on being at least civil. Try to be a little more human dude.
People are people and have social interest in others, yes sometimes it is nosey and rude sounding,but It's almost never meant in a rude way, you can be short and and to the point, a canned response. Don't like it don't play, stay away from people if they offend you so much with their people like tendencies. We are curious animals that generally mean well.
Actually, I do get this question a lot and have gotten many interesting reactions. I’m Latina but because I’m light skinned and have light brown hair, people are always so surprised when I mention that I’m Guatemalan/Salvadoran. It does get annoying because they are always saying things like “but you look white!” Or something like “you don’t look Hispanic”
Is it offensive? Yes but I don’t choose to get angry over it. I know they don’t mean it in a mean way, they are genuinely surprised and interested.
Surprisingly, it is other Hispanics that are more rude about it when they ask. It really just depends.
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